My husband didn't have a problem with it we got married while he was in medical school. I work part time as a Montessori teacher now. My child goes to the same preschool. I think he would have had a problem if I wanted to continue working as a nanny. I worked until he finished medical school and got a Montessori education degree at the same time.
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I wouldn't, but all the male nannies I know are gay. so that wouldn't make sense in my life. Even if he was straight I wouldn't have a relationship with him. I'm a nanny and I hope no one wants to date me or marry me at this stage of my life. |
What point are you trying to make? |
| I am dating a nanny but she is in school for another profession. Her being a nanny has never been an issue. In fact, I love knowing what a great mom she will be if we have children. |
You have issues, episodes, and sagas girl. Get help! |
Who knew being self aware meant there was something wrong with you? |
That I wouldn't have a relationship with a nanny. What point are you trying to make? |
My DH loved this too. You're getting a woman who not only loves kids but knows how to handle them? That's a big plus if you want a family! |
Being a nanny does not always translate to good mom. If you like the person go for it, but I would say find out if they have career nanny plans or is she nannying through school. Are you the type who wants to marry a SAHM or a mother that works? |
Your post was unclear. |
SAHM |
Then a nanny might be the kind of woman you are looking for. All you can do is date her and see where it goes,, but focus on her as a person, as longterm partner and not just her profession. |
Pp here. I do love that. She is wonderful with kids. As to the other pp, she is paying her way through school. I will let her decided if she wants to work or stay home. |
| I would date a male nanny |
| OP here. I'm 31 years old with one child on my own. I have Master (that I earned in Europe) and I think I'm kind of ashamed to admit I'm a nanny. I make about $70000 a year working +/- 50 hours a week. I would love to be a preschool teacher but could not live off their salary. im working towards opening my own day care center. |