Husband

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is such a troll post. So all these months you've been having sex the room has been SO DARK that you couldn't possibly tell that your DH wasn't wearing a condom? And the whole financial struggle/potential unemployment? I get why you added that but it's overboard.

A better idea would be have been telling us that he messed with your bc pills.

Better luck next time, OP.

She said she passed out afterwards. Her H could have just pulled this trick when they had drunk sex or something. If I was drunk and fooling around with my H in my dark bedroom I wouldn't be able to tell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 27 and work away from my husband Mon-Thurs. He's in the last year of his PhD in a small college town . I have to stay in a bigger city Mon-Thursday to work. I'm always exhausted.  On top of that, my employer may be going under and our resources barely stretch as it is. 

My husband is desperate for a baby kids and has been after me to have a baby I have told him I'm not ready .

So fast forward to 4 weeks ago.

We have sex and we usually use condoms.  ALWAYS.  And he knows that so he goes the closet to get a condom. I think he has everything together, including the and condom.  He turns off the light we have sex and then I pass out.

Needless to say I'm pregnant after the one time!! My husband said he's been tricking me for months!!

Why are the condoms in a closet? Wouldn't they be next to the bed?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is such a troll post. So all these months you've been having sex the room has been SO DARK that you couldn't possibly tell that your DH wasn't wearing a condom? And the whole financial struggle/potential unemployment? I get why you added that but it's overboard.

A better idea would be have been telling us that he messed with your bc pills.

Better luck next time, OP.

We have only had sex twice in the last 2 months. I have been away a lot as I travel for work and I had a death in my family. I would travel to Chicago most weekends to be with my mom. This is not a fake post!

[Anonymous]

your husband drugged you then. what a great guy he is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 27 and work away from my husband Mon-Thurs. He's in the last year of his PhD in a small college town . I have to stay in a bigger city Mon-Thursday to work. I'm always exhausted.  On top of that, my employer may be going under and our resources barely stretch as it is. 

My husband is desperate for a baby kids and has been after me to have a baby I have told him I'm not ready .

So fast forward to 4 weeks ago.

We have sex and we usually use condoms.  ALWAYS.  And he knows that so he goes the closet to get a condom. I think he has everything together, including the and condom.  He turns off the light we have sex and then I pass out.

Needless to say I'm pregnant after the one time!! My husband said he's been tricking me for months!!

Why are the condoms in a closet? Wouldn't they be next to the bed?

No, we don't have night stands.

[Anonymous]

That right there is grounds for divorce and an assault charge. What a dirty pos.

BTW, you carry some responsibility too. You're not a little kid. You should know a condom is never foolproof.

[Anonymous]

Okay, you're a troll, you're not a troll. There have been suggestions as to how to respond. If you're not a troll, then respond to the suggestions to abort and leave him.

[Anonymous]

Op here: An abortion is not the right decision for me. I come from a religious background and they would absolutely not accept this.

[dancingsunflowers06]

Wow. Have you talked to him about this? How are you feeling?

mommato2lilmonkeys

[Anonymous]

Op here: An abortion is not the right decision for me. I come from a religious background and they would absolutely not accept this.

"They" are not having a baby. You are, at the moment.

Do what is right for you, not "them."

[Anonymous]

No way this is real. To me, sex feels different with a condom. I don't think there's any way OP could have NOT known DH was without a condom and NOT noticed the mess afterwards.

[Anonymous]

Did you pass out because your husband drugged you?

Why aren't you on the pill?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That right there is grounds for divorce and an assault charge. What a dirty pos.

BTW, you carry some responsibility too. You're not a little kid. You should know a condom is never foolproof.

Nothing is foolproof except abstinence. Condoms are extremely effective when used correctly (ie not waiting to put it on until right before ejaculation and stuff like that). What was she supposed to do, not have sex with her husband? Who would imagine their life partner would trick them regarding birth control? She couldn't have foreseen that.

[Anonymous]

OP since you aren't interested in an abortion:

I wish I had tried at 27. I'm only a few years beyond that, but it's been a huge struggle to get pregnant. You're married, albeit tired and not financially ready, but you'll do fine. And since DH wants this baby so badly, he needs to up his game at work and hustle a little for more pay.

You and your DH need some counseling stat though. I'm not sure he realizes that what he did was malicious. Maybe he's just extremely excited for said baby?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you pass out because your husband drugged you?

Why aren't you on the pill?

No, I was drunk and tired. Honestly my husband has a small penis so I don't feel much with or without a condom. I'm also not very experienced sexually. I was a virgin before we married. Maybe some of these things don't seem believable to you because I'm coming from a Turkish Muslim background.