DH in love with ex when we met
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Anonymous
I was just curious about her. Especially since it seems like when we met he wasn't over her. He'd talk about her and stuff. |
Anonymous
Also he continued texting with her after we got together. When I told him it made me uncomfortable he was mad and say that they're just friends and that he doesn't want to be a jerk to her. By his emails I also found out that 5 months after we were dating he met up with her for lunch when she was in town. |
Anonymous
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OP, I understand you as I was in your shoes. DH had broken up with his GF 2 months before we met. He also was trying to get back with her and I believe was having a lot of romantic thoughts about her 1 year into our relationship.
To be fair, I was also still talking to an ex bf who was abroad at the time. We are now married 15 years and very happy. |
Anonymous
| op, how long have you been together? The way you talk makes it sound like this is a new relationship but you say you've been married for 6 months |
Anonymous
and this was how long ago? Did you rush into this marriage? Are there trust issues? I can't imagine caring enough about DH's ex (who I know he was talking to when we first were dating but I don't know about what) To actively search for their old emails. This seems like a sign of something way bigger. Also, did you post about this before? The whole "he was in love with his ex" is really familiar |
Anonymous
| Have you posted about this before? Perhaps before you were married? This sounds very familiar. |
Anonymous