Trying to understand my daughter......

[Anonymous]

She's 25! She's a grown up woman with a husband. Leave your poor daughter alone.

[Anonymous]

OP, you are a nightmare. I am glad you are not my mother.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she has a nice life. Please leave her alone. She's f

[Anonymous]

...ine.

[Anonymous]

If she had kids her husband would quickly stop liking her so much and would not tolerate her lazy ass anymore, so maybe she knows what she is doing.
I knew a couple where all she was doing is serving hand and foot on her husband, and he was happy with the arrangement. Maybe they become a
Similar couple

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she had kids her husband would quickly stop liking her so much and would not tolerate her lazy ass anymore, so maybe she knows what she is doing.
I knew a couple where all she was doing is serving hand and foot on her husband, and he was happy with the arrangement. Maybe they become a
Similar couple

Maybe he likes the child-free lifestyle, too.

[Anonymous]

OP, there is likely a lot going on in your daughter's life that you dont know aboutl.

[Anonymous]

OP, I'm a new poster and you are an absolute nightmare.

Can you just hear yourself? "At the very least she could become a stay at home mom and give me grand children". You realize that this is incredibly offensive?
1. It means that having children and not working outside the home is second class.
2. It also means you think yourself entitled to making reproductive choices for your adult daughter.
3. It also means you don't have any sort of boundaries at all.

I have a child with special needs. I understand that my necessary intrusion into his young life because of his learning differences and quirkiness will eventually have to recede into the background. After all, our children are not stupid, and they can make up their own minds!

So leave her alone. Let her be happy on her own terms. Don't nag and keep your worries to yourself.

Ugh. I hope you're a troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she had kids her husband would quickly stop liking her so much and would not tolerate her lazy ass anymore, so maybe she knows what she is doing.
I knew a couple where all she was doing is serving hand and foot on her husband, and he was happy with the arrangement. Maybe they become a
Similar couple

OP here and she doesn't serve hand and foot on her husband. I know he does all the cooking. I think she may do the laundry. She's my daughter and I love her, but her husband is a saint to put up with all her crap. I just hope the marriage lasts.

[Anonymous]

Yes, she is not ambitious. That can be mysterious or frustrating to parents or other siblings who are.

Just focus on being the best "you" you can be and lead by example, not words. Meanwhile, she will continue to land on her fit, be that through her husband or taint a job when she needs to (not wants to).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she had kids her husband would quickly stop liking her so much and would not tolerate her lazy ass anymore, so maybe she knows what she is doing.
I knew a couple where all she was doing is serving hand and foot on her husband, and he was happy with the arrangement. Maybe they become a
Similar couple

OP here and she doesn't serve hand and foot on her husband. I know he does all the cooking. I think she may do the laundry. She's my daughter and I love her, but her husband is a saint to put up with all her crap. I just hope the marriage lasts.

Ok, now you blew your cover. You're not a mother, you're the jealous sibling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she had kids her husband would quickly stop liking her so much and would not tolerate her lazy ass anymore, so maybe she knows what she is doing.
I knew a couple where all she was doing is serving hand and foot on her husband, and he was happy with the arrangement. Maybe they become a
Similar couple

OP here and she doesn't serve hand and foot on her husband. I know he does all the cooking. I think she may do the laundry. She's my daughter and I love her, but her husband is a saint to put up with all her crap. I just hope the marriage lasts.

Ok, now you blew your cover. You're not a mother, you're the jealous sibling.

Or the MIL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she had kids her husband would quickly stop liking her so much and would not tolerate her lazy ass anymore, so maybe she knows what she is doing.
I knew a couple where all she was doing is serving hand and foot on her husband, and he was happy with the arrangement. Maybe they become a
Similar couple

OP here and she doesn't serve hand and foot on her husband. I know he does all the cooking. I think she may do the laundry. She's my daughter and I love her, but her husband is a saint to put up with all her crap. I just hope the marriage lasts.

I agree with you and I understand. I think their marriage has pretty good chances as long as they are child free.
Unfortunately I don't think you can do anything. Maybe she could become a hairdresser or some such? Get a "real" profession that would feed her if needed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she had kids her husband would quickly stop liking her so much and would not tolerate her lazy ass anymore, so maybe she knows what she is doing.
I knew a couple where all she was doing is serving hand and foot on her husband, and he was happy with the arrangement. Maybe they become a
Similar couple

OP here and she doesn't serve hand and foot on her husband. I know he does all the cooking. I think she may do the laundry. She's my daughter and I love her, but her husband is a saint to put up with all her crap. I just hope the marriage lasts.

I agree with you and I understand. I think their marriage has pretty good chances as long as they are child free.
Unfortunately I don't think you can do anything. Maybe she could become a hairdresser or some such? Get a "real" profession that would feed her if needed.

You two deserve each other. Meanwhile, OP's daughter has finally found happiness with someone who loves her just the way she is.

[Anonymous]

What's wrong with being a stay at home wife.