Your ("straight") husband is trying to f*ck me (gay guy). What to do?

[Anonymous]

Tell him to get the fuck away from you because you aren't interested and he's married. What a douche.

[Anonymous]

Do you want to see Godzilla Friday night?
--Sorry, I don't think that's a good idea. You should probably stop coming onto me before you get into trouble.
You let me worry about that. You just think about whether you're free on Friday night.
--Sorry, but I don't date co-workers. It gets way too messy and gets in the way of work. Hope you find someone to see the movie with.

[Anonymous]

OP- if you don't want to fuck married guys, tell him you don't fuck married guys. If you don't want to fuck someone you work with, tell him you don't fuck co-workers. Be totally honest with him. If he persists, make sure you're not alone with him. I could see him being an asshole and accuse YOU of sexual harassment. Protect yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:ask him to bend over and give him what he wants

Maybe what dude wants is OP's mouth.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like this is his MO and he has done this before.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP- if you don't want to fuck married guys, tell him you don't fuck married guys. If you don't want to fuck someone you work with, tell him you don't fuck co-workers. Be totally honest with him. If he persists, make sure you're not alone with him. I could see him being an asshole and accuse YOU of sexual harassment. Protect yourself.

+ 1,000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like this is his MO and he has done this before.

Yup.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP- if you don't want to fuck married guys, tell him you don't fuck married guys. If you don't want to fuck someone you work with, tell him you don't fuck co-workers. Be totally honest with him. If he persists, make sure you're not alone with him. I could see him being an asshole and accuse YOU of sexual harassment. Protect yourself.

+ 1,000

Absolutely. Guy sounds like a complete douche and if he's coming on that strong, this is not his first rodeo. Protect yourself.

Tell him you're not interested and then document, document, document.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If a man rubbed a female colleagues leg and had his hand on her pussy she'd be advised to RUN to hr/authorities...I love how this is somehow different I mean whether you're gay or not doesn't really matter. You're being sexually harrassed in the workplace. Dude made a wrong bet.

Exactly. When does being hay scream, "Any man can paw me and my junk anywhere, anytime! "

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just tell the guy, "You're married and I'm not interested."

Yeah, and take his hand off your dick.
That's just crazy. You're his colleague!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here -

So he called me ask me about seeing Godzilla on Friday and I said I didn't think it was a good idea. I sort of jokingly said that he should probably stop coming onto me before he gets himself into trouble. His response: "You let me worry about that. You just think about whether or not you're free on Friday night." Then he said he had to go and he'd come by later.

I suppose I'll have to aggressively turn him down. I honestly hate tension and certainly don't want to have any at work.

Okay dude, you've got to cut this off. I would have been at HR yesterday but since you're u willing to do that, you have to be firm with him.
"No, I can't go to Godzilla with you. I don't date married men, ever, and I don't date colleagues.
Our working relationship is great and it needs to stay on that level".

[Anonymous]

Document. Keep a diary. Tell him no firmly.

If it doesn't work to to HR because it is sexual harassment.

[Anonymous]

OP-did you ever say if you are interested in this guy?

Would you be interested if he were not a coworker and not married?

Not that it matters that much, stay away from married people, please. But, if you would otherwise go out with him, it makes is even more complicated because my guess is that sooner or later, you will find yourself a little drunk at an office party and then end up naked together.

[Anonymous]

Learn from v. Stiviano or whatever her name is. Tape record the conversation(s) and tell HR (or if he's made of money then get some $$$$)

[Anonymous]

His poor wife. Can't you say that he was very inappropriate. And then go to hr?