White moms and discipline

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Careful OP, I have blood on my hands and I'm not afraid to use them.

Ha!

I'm not the OP, but what does this mean….? This thread seems to have been derailed and turned in to a weird zombie post rather than answering the OP's question - not that I give her post too much credit since I think it's a bit out of touch - bad parenting is something that happens in every race….but, did I miss something with Jeff's response?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Careful OP, I have blood on my hands and I'm not afraid to use them.

Ha!

I'm not the OP, but what does this mean….? This thread seems to have been derailed and turned in to a weird zombie post rather than answering the OP's question - not that I give her post too much credit since I think it's a bit out of touch - bad parenting is something that happens in every race….but, did I miss something with Jeff's response?

It's a reference to a thread in another forum about the shooting at the National Zoo.

[Anonymous]

lmao love it

[Anonymous]

Yes - thank you PP. I just discovered the other thread. I hadn't read down the list far enough….I'm off DCUM for a day and new things pop up quickly!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Careful OP, I have blood on my hands and I'm not afraid to use them.

Ha!

I'm not the OP, but what does this mean….? This thread seems to have been derailed and turned in to a weird zombie post rather than answering the OP's question - not that I give her post too much credit since I think it's a bit out of touch - bad parenting is something that happens in every race….but, did I miss something with Jeff's response?

It's a reference to a thread in another forum about the shooting at the National Zoo.

FINALLY someone gets it. Just flipping the script here! http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/379359.page

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a white mom and my toddler has slapped me. He goes in time out. Hitting a child is only reinforcing violence, not detering it. My parents beat the crap out of me. I feared them. I'm not doing that to my children.

Sounds like a promising young psychopath you're raising. Have fun visiting him in prison!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Careful OP, I have blood on my hands and I'm not afraid to use them.

Ha!

I'm not the OP, but what does this mean….? This thread seems to have been derailed and turned in to a weird zombie post rather than answering the OP's question - not that I give her post too much credit since I think it's a bit out of touch - bad parenting is something that happens in every race….but, did I miss something with Jeff's response?

It's a reference to a thread in another forum about the shooting at the National Zoo.

FINALLY someone gets it. Just flipping the script here! http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/379359.page

sat·ire
?sa?t?r/Submit
noun
1. the use of humor, irony, exaggeration, or ridicule to expose and criticize people's stupidity or vices, particularly in the context of contemporary politics and other topical issues.

I think most posters got it...

[Anonymous]

OK, reread that last and maybe no one did get it.

Alls I did was take the first post in the "Black moms and hitting" thread, change a few words around, and created a new post called "White moms and discipline".

For satire. And because I'm sick of all of the "Black moms all ___", "Black people all _____" threads.

Jeff didn't respond to those threads. But see, if you start a thread questioning WHITE people...

(Kidding! See what I did there? Please keep your bloody hands away from meeeee.....)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Careful OP, I have blood on my hands and I'm not afraid to use them.

Ha!

I'm not the OP, but what does this mean….? This thread seems to have been derailed and turned in to a weird zombie post rather than answering the OP's question - not that I give her post too much credit since I think it's a bit out of touch - bad parenting is something that happens in every race….but, did I miss something with Jeff's response?

It's a reference to a thread in another forum about the shooting at the National Zoo.

FINALLY someone gets it. Just flipping the script here! http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/379359.page

sat·ire
?sa?t?r/Submit
noun
1. the use of humor, irony, exaggeration, or ridicule to expose and criticize people's stupidity or vices, particularly in the context of contemporary politics and other topical issues.

I think most posters got it...

Jeff didn't, he threatened to off me (of DCUM!)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OK, reread that last and maybe no one did get it.

Alls I did was take the first post in the "Black moms and hitting" thread, change a few words around, and created a new post called "White moms and discipline".

For satire. And because I'm sick of all of the "Black moms all ___", "Black people all _____" threads.

Jeff didn't respond to those threads. But see, if you start a thread questioning WHITE people...

(Kidding! See what I did there? Please keep your bloody hands away from meeeee.....)

I'm also sick of the white people threads. Who do white people date? White peoples eyes are so amazing. What do white people think?

[Anonymous]

I know this is for all intents and purposes a retaliative thread in response to the one about black moms and hitting, but if I may be so bold and inject some seriousness into the discussion...

In my observation of white mothers while I can't say with a straight face that I constantly see them getting beat up and cursed out by their kids, I can say in all seriousness that from my observations white mothers seem to be incredibly lenient when it comes to their children.
To me, white mothers seem far more dismissive of deliberate acts of defiance and disrespect than women of other races and also white mothers seem far more indifferent of inappropriate behavior than women of other races.
When I stopped to think about my observations and the impressions that I have as a result it initially confounded me because I've seen this kind of blasé attitude from white moms of various backgrounds - those from the east coast and west coast in the north and south those that are rich those that are poor those that are catholic those that are protestant...didn't matter. I was totally stumped. Why...why...why...and then finally it hit me and all I could do was laugh because the answer was so simple.

White privilege.

That shit starts from birth lol. Mommy indoctrinates her infants from jump and gets them geared toward that proud pale mindset that they are irreproachable and exempt from any and all accountability.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know this is for all intents and purposes a retaliative thread in response to the one about black moms and hitting, but if I may be so bold and inject some seriousness into the discussion...

In my observation of white mothers while I can't say with a straight face that I constantly see them getting beat up and cursed out by their kids, I can say in all seriousness that from my observations white mothers seem to be incredibly lenient when it comes to their children.
To me, white mothers seem far more dismissive of deliberate acts of defiance and disrespect than women of other races and also white mothers seem far more indifferent of inappropriate behavior than women of other races.
When I stopped to think about my observations and the impressions that I have as a result it initially confounded me because I've seen this kind of blasé attitude from white moms of various backgrounds - those from the east coast and west coast in the north and south those that are rich those that are poor those that are catholic those that are protestant...didn't matter. I was totally stumped. Why...why...why...and then finally it hit me and all I could do was laugh because the answer was so simple.

White privilege.

That shit starts from birth lol. Mommy indoctrinates her infants from jump and gets them geared toward that proud pale mindset that they are irreproachable and exempt from any and all accountability.

I agree that privilege is part of it, but I see it more as moms who are not white recognizing their lack of privilege. Consequences for negative behavior are often worse for black kids and teens than for whites. The wider world will not cut them slack for being disrespectful, breaking the rules, not respecting authority. They have to learn early before they try that stuff at school and get suspended or worse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know this is for all intents and purposes a retaliative thread in response to the one about black moms and hitting, but if I may be so bold and inject some seriousness into the discussion...

In my observation of white mothers while I can't say with a straight face that I constantly see them getting beat up and cursed out by their kids, I can say in all seriousness that from my observations white mothers seem to be incredibly lenient when it comes to their children.
To me, white mothers seem far more dismissive of deliberate acts of defiance and disrespect than women of other races and also white mothers seem far more indifferent of inappropriate behavior than women of other races.
When I stopped to think about my observations and the impressions that I have as a result it initially confounded me because I've seen this kind of blasé attitude from white moms of various backgrounds - those from the east coast and west coast in the north and south those that are rich those that are poor those that are catholic those that are protestant...didn't matter. I was totally stumped. Why...why...why...and then finally it hit me and all I could do was laugh because the answer was so simple.

White privilege.

That shit starts from birth lol. Mommy indoctrinates her infants from jump and gets them geared toward that proud pale mindset that they are irreproachable and exempt from any and all accountability.

I agree that privilege is part of it, but I see it more as moms who are not white recognizing their lack of privilege. Consequences for negative behavior are often worse for black kids and teens than for whites. The wider world will not cut them slack for being disrespectful, breaking the rules, not respecting authority. They have to learn early before they try that stuff at school and get suspended or worse.

+1 You on track!

[Anonymous]

I think it's more a cultural or regional thing. White southerners are far stricter and hold their kids to higher standards of decorum to NE white people. They are more likely to spank their kids. I grew up in both regions and as a kid noticed a huge difference. African Americans tend to have southern roots. It's the same culture in many ways.

I'm not in favor of hitting kids in any way. But I do think a lot of times African American kids are nicer to their elders than white kids in this city. Even putting aside spanking, I think African American parents are just not as likely to put up with insolence, poor behavior, rolling eyes, etc.

And I'm white, FYI.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You don't call your mother enough. She could be a zombie and you wouldn't even know it! But that's OK. She'll still make your favorite food when you come to visit next. Which is not frequently enough, you know.

Do you know how many mothers it takes to change a light bulb?

Don't bother, I'll just sit here in the dark