Teenager- Sexy underwear?
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Anonymous
And if you say no, she'll just buy it with her own money and hide it. Which is what I did. |
Anonymous
| Most kids don't have jobs anymore, so $$$ comes from parents. |
Anonymous
| Her own money and not to be seen on the outside - it is underwear. |
Anonymous
| I don't think it's a problem at 16. I would not want to fund it though. Expensive. I like the idea PP said about making her buy her own. Or at least most of it. |
Anonymous
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I was raised in a fairly conservative house and was never promiscuous. But, I did have "sexy" underwear that my my allowed me to wear. I remember visiting my grandmother who still hung all her laundry to dry and ironed EVERYTHING and she was completely flummoxed by my thing underwear. We got a laugh about her trying to fold my things and she refused to hang them outside where the neighbors would see it. I am sure she talked to my mom about that.
I am going to have to remember this when my daughter gets older and wants to ditch her cotton panties! |
Anonymous
+1000 |
Anonymous
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Good grief. Why not?
If it's too expensive, tell her she has to pay for it herself. |
Anonymous
| My mother always had me covering up (God forbid someone notice me). I wish I appreciated my body more from ages 16-26. I never imagined it would never look better. Now my fancy VS lingerie is saved for special occasions (too uncomfortable, too expensive, don't like the extra laundry or to throw it in the family laundry, etc etc). My DD dresses nice (including undies)for herself. She's a very confident, beautiful girl and she really rocks her bikini. I like her teen self much more than my teen self. |
Anonymous
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Definitely fine for her to want nicer undies. VS is where I got mine when I was 16. Nobody wants to be caught dead in Hanes granny panties at that age and girls talk about their clothes and change around each other.
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Anonymous
If her confidence comes from sexy underwear, that is scary. |
Anonymous
+1. My DD is very comfort conscious and finicky about the fit, so she only wears cotton undies, that has a comfortable cut. I cannot imagine thongs being comfortable for a teen who has a super busy day in and out of school. She also has too much pride to wear anything that has misogynistic words printed on them. Anyways, because I am her mom, I tend to take her intellect and viewpoints for granted, and fail to notice these kinds of self-affirming choices that she makes in her everyday life. |
Anonymous
Ugh! My DD will be so upset with me if I comment on her body. |
Anonymous
| I don’t think it’s weird at all. I never wear anything but a thong. It’s uncomfortable to me to wear full underwear! |
Anonymous
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I think we have different definitions of "sexy", OP. Lace, less coverage, bra padding and pretty designs are not "sexy". They are feminine. They're a choice any woman and girl can make for themselves.
It's not like she's asking for open crotch panties! For health reasons, tell her to stay away from too much polyester near her nether regions. Whatever the marketing says, they're less breathable, and microplastics have been found to adversely affect health (polyester is a plastic). Organic cotton is always better, even though it's harder to find lacey, pretty things in that fabric. But to me and my teens, it's a worthwhile choice. I just bought some organic cotton PACT panties with lace for myself. |
Anonymous
+2 |