I am in love with my friend's wife.......

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men shouldn't have women friends. It never ends up good.

This. Boundaries, my friends, boundaries.

[Anonymous]

Take the qualities you like about her and look for those qualities in someone else. Browse through online dating profiles. Lots and lots of great women out there. You're wasting everyone's time including your own with this fixation.

[Anonymous]

This isn't a real post. Please see the gender reversed thread of the woman who wants to stop falling for her male coworker.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nothing good ever happens when you get hung up on someone. Crushes hurt, obsessions scare the crap out of people, fixations keep you from focusing and functioning properly, infatuations inhibit opportunities for other relationships - it's not worth it.

Look, instead of preoccupying your thoughts with all the wonderful things about your friend's wife try and tone down your preoccupations to one thing - tits for example. Not just hers, but all tits in general. Obsessing about tits will help you to notice other women and it will enable you to get your friend's wife out of your head 24/7 because instead of fantasizing about all of the amazing qualities you like about her that other women lack...hell every woman's got tits!! You'll be relaxed and relieved from the burden of longing your friend's wife and be free to drool over any set of jugs you like.

Try it.

Thank you, this was the funniest advice I have ever read. Did you mean this? Does this really work?

[Anonymous]

Go big or go home OP.

[Anonymous]

How can you not pursue sex with her? She could be your soulmate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How can you not pursue sex with her? She could be your soulmate.

Stop being silly!

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men shouldn't have women friends. It never ends up good.

Really? Your grandpa said that?

[Anonymous]

Keep it in the spank bank. It would destroy your friend if you took her away- imagine living with that story and having to tell people what happened. Imagine telling others how you met for the rest of your time together. Imagine telling your mother about your new girlfriend. Imagine what the kids would think if they have any and how they would regard you going forward. Even if you just have an affair and don't get caught, you would both would have to live with this and see each other. In all likelihood it would ruin your friendship and really destroy your self respect.

[Anonymous]

OP - Just curious, are you male or female? (I don't mean to be disrespectful by asking)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How do I get over this? We have been friends for a while now and I love hanging out with her. We can seriously talk about things for hours and the fact that she is hot does not help. I know nothing will ever come out of this, she has what seems to be an amazing relationship with her DH. I just need to get over this, she is all I ever think about when I'm with other women and I am constantly comparing them to her. Not to mention I feel like crap when I think about betraying my friend. She just seems so real while the women I date appear artificial to me. Advice? Please don't tell me to stop seeing her cold turkey. I really value the friendship I have with her DH and her.

When you think about how perfect she is, think about hurting your friend. Think about destroying their relationship. Think about how realistically, you don't know what it's like to be in a relationship with her. No one is as perfect as we think they are when we're infatuated.

Also, whether you want to admit it or not, you are using this woman and your feelings for her as an excuse to not get involved with other women. Maybe if you found some other women of a similar caliber, you wouldn't need to justify not being involved with them to yourself.

[Anonymous]

OP ~ you're pathetic

[Anonymous]

Oh, you can't make yourself stop dreaming, Who you're dreaming of
If it's who you love, Then it's who you love

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately i'm on the same boat as you are only the situation is kinda the oth way round. I hope i could get over this ridiculous feelings of mine and continue to fall in love again to my husband. I can't distance myself because we are sharing the same roof. Good luck to both of us...