A very flirty husband and now a very flirty friend

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My ex was a big flirt too. The problem can be when a vulnerable needy woman comes along who will do anything for him and his attention. Sorry but at the end of the day nearly all men are driven by their d****s. Yes I just said it and firmly believe it. So don't let it escalate, that dynamic can be intoxicating to both parties....and not in a way that will make you very happy.

Keep his balls empty and his stomach full and there will be no escalation.

Really hate that saying, so crude and classless. Are you talking about men or a cow?

Yes, it is crude, rude, and classless. But is also true.

-signed, A Man.

[Anonymous]

Even if said friend is on the prowl. Do you trust your husband to keep things harmless or are you scared he's the type that will trip, fall and land in her vagina?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Even if said friend is on the prowl. Do you trust your husband to keep things harmless or are you scared he's the type that will trip, fall and land in her vagina?

Shit happens.

[Anonymous]

I had a situation where a woman was practically thrusting herself on my DH. He's such a nice guy and, as handsome as he is, totally clueless when women are coming on to him. I've always taken it as a compliment, but this particular woman was very raw about it. When I brought it up to him, he agreed and we severed our friendship with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My ex was a big flirt too. The problem can be when a vulnerable needy woman comes along who will do anything for him and his attention. Sorry but at the end of the day nearly all men are driven by their d****s. Yes I just said it and firmly believe it. So don't let it escalate, that dynamic can be intoxicating to both parties....and not in a way that will make you very happy.

Keep his balls empty and his stomach full and there will be no escalation.

Really hate that saying, so crude and classless. Are you talking about men or a cow?

Keep the udders empty and the four stomachs full and your cow will be happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My H is a big flirt, its part of his personality. He is larger than life, always the life of any room he is in and people naturally love being around him. He has a lot of male friends which I see is not the norm (most of my friends husbands dont' really hang out with other men anymore) and of course women like him too! He runs a successful business and we have a great family/home life. The flirting has always bothered me a little but I am a secure person so I understood its part of his charm.

One of my friends however who is recently divorced and thinks my H is the end all be all I noticed has started flirting back. i am not really liking it. I want to talk to her about it and have asked my H to refrain from sending her the wrong message since she seems vulnerable and takes everything to heart, but I dont' want to hurt her nor do I want to look immature or insecure. I just don't like it. Any ideas on how to handle?

You don't want to hurt her? She's planning on being the next... But you don't want to hurt her. Bitch Bye

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My H is a big flirt, its part of his personality. He is larger than life, always the life of any room he is in and people naturally love being around him. He has a lot of male friends which I see is not the norm (most of my friends husbands dont' really hang out with other men anymore) and of course women like him too! He runs a successful business and we have a great family/home life. The flirting has always bothered me a little but I am a secure person so I understood its part of his charm.

One of my friends however who is recently divorced and thinks my H is the end all be all I noticed has started flirting back. i am not really liking it. I want to talk to her about it and have asked my H to refrain from sending her the wrong message since she seems vulnerable and takes everything to heart, but I dont' want to hurt her nor do I want to look immature or insecure. I just don't like it. Any ideas on how to handle?

You don't want to hurt her? She's planning on being the next... But you don't want to hurt her. Bitch Bye

+1 She does not care if she hurts you, obviously
Nevertheless, I would not talk to her - it would signal that you are vulnerable and insecure

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My ex was a big flirt too. The problem can be when a vulnerable needy woman comes along who will do anything for him and his attention. Sorry but at the end of the day nearly all men are driven by their d****s. Yes I just said it and firmly believe it. So don't let it escalate, that dynamic can be intoxicating to both parties....and not in a way that will make you very happy.

Keep his balls empty and his stomach full and there will be no escalation.

Really hate that saying, so crude and classless. Are you talking about men or a cow?

Yes, it is crude, rude, and classless. But is also true.

-signed, A Man.

True for only some of you. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:


Really hate that saying, so crude and classless. Are you talking about men or a cow?

Yes, it is crude, rude, and classless. But is also true.

-signed, A Man.

True for only some of you. Sorry.

I don't think you're really sorry.

[Anonymous]

If she is flirting with your husband OP, then she is not your "friend." Seriously, I would cross her off my friends list w/a big black X.

I also wouldn't accept my hubby flirting w/other people simply as part of his "charm."
He is disrespecting you to the extreme on a regular basis and by not saying anything and using the excuse that it is his charm is just giving him a free pass.

You say you are secure and all.
I say you are not.

Any married woman who lets her husband flirt w/others and accepts it is very insecure in my book.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she is flirting with your husband OP, then she is not your "friend." Seriously, I would cross her off my friends list w/a big black X.

I also wouldn't accept my hubby flirting w/other people simply as part of his "charm."
He is disrespecting you to the extreme on a regular basis and by not saying anything and using the excuse that it is his charm is just giving him a free pass.

You say you are secure and all.
I say you are not.

Any married woman who lets her husband flirt w/others and accepts it is very insecure in my book.

You seem fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My ex was a big flirt too. The problem can be when a vulnerable needy woman comes along who will do anything for him and his attention. Sorry but at the end of the day nearly all men are driven by their d****s. Yes I just said it and firmly believe it. So don't let it escalate, that dynamic can be intoxicating to both parties....and not in a way that will make you very happy.

Keep his balls empty and his stomach full and there will be no escalation.

Really hate that saying, so crude and classless. Are you talking about men or a cow?

Yes, it is crude, rude, and classless. But is also true.

-signed, A Man.

Or, there could be no escalation because the DH is a person responsible for his own actions. Keep it in your pants, PP, damn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she is flirting with your husband OP, then she is not your "friend." Seriously, I would cross her off my friends list w/a big black X.

I also wouldn't accept my hubby flirting w/other people simply as part of his "charm."
He is disrespecting you to the extreme on a regular basis and by not saying anything and using the excuse that it is his charm is just giving him a free pass.

You say you are secure and all.
I say you are not.

Any married woman who lets her husband flirt w/others and accepts it is very insecure in my book.

You seem fun.

+1. And if anyone is insecure, it's the person who proposes she will not "let" her "hubby" flirt. Good luck with that.

[Anonymous]

NP here. I would drop her, OP. Who needs it?

I've been through this. It is absolutely no fun having any kind of needy people in your life. Drop them and you will feel ten pounds lighter.

In this case, at least drop the so called "friend".

[Anonymous]

i love to flirt and always will but feel it's disrespectful around your spouse. that's not normal.