The real reason for our infertility
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Anonymous
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Yup. You can do it. Sometimes when people use a traditional surrogate they do it (particularly since clinics don't want to touch traditional surrogacy). Here is some info:
http://www.surromomsonline.com/support/showthread.php?126023-A-Brief-Guide-to-Home-Inseminations |
Anonymous
| Yes! I can vouch for the same reason you mentioned, OP. Why not give self-insemination a try for a few cycles before doing something more costly, and possibly more invasive? It worked for me! It's not a big deal, really, it's ok! |
Anonymous
| If a turkey baster works and brings you your child, go for it! Best wishes for success. |
Anonymous
| Can u watch porn while doing it? Will that help? |
Anonymous
| It's not that weird. Guys can get used to one position or grip or activity for orgasm and train their dick to just do that. It can be retrained, but it's work. Just use a turkey baster. If you are happy with your sex life, except for the baby thing, then do what you need to do to get a baby, and don't worry about it. |
Anonymous
| Use the instead cups. Have him finish in the cup and then insert. Just make sure you push it all the way back so it's over the opening of your cervix. |
Anonymous
| Op here. Thanks for the support. I use the Divacup. Will this work like the Instead? |
Anonymous
| Some woman on baby center got pregnant by having anal sex and her husband finished by ejaculating in her diva cup which she then inserted into her vagina. So yes, at home "Methods" work. |
Anonymous
ITA. There are also midwives who are skilled at assisting insemination - they help a lot of LGBTQ couples get pregnant. I am not in the DC area, so I don't have local recommendations. |
Anonymous
| OP, do you live in suburban Maryland? |
Anonymous
Yep |
Anonymous
| You know, I heard once that this is common among law officers. OP, if that's your husband maybe have him checked out by a psychologist? Job stressors are pretty huge in that line of work. |
Anonymous
| how long has he had the gay? |
Anonymous
| I suggested the Instead cups and while I think the diva cup could work I think the Instead cup might be better because it would give DH a bigger target to aim at and it's fairly shallow so the sperm will be closer to your cervix than with the diva cup. Just my thoughts... |
Anonymous
That is not a fair comment. Some guys do things differently. |