Daily support thread?
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OP- I have had some similar thoughts with my husband. He finally sat me down and said while he would love to have child, the most important thing in his world was me. This is my body and if I wasn't comfortable with shots and hormones, then we would find another way or we would be childless, but his main concern was my health and my happiness. Your husband married you for who you are. Trust in that.
You also mentioned looking for a daily site. I have one that I am on that has provided me with a tremendous amount of support (it does have emoticons, but this one does too!) The one I am on has people who are all at varying degrees of procedures (IVF, IUI, or trying the old fashioned way) I have found it is really helpful to vent and talk to people who are going through the same thing at the same time I am (twoweekwait dot com if you are interested). |
Anonymous
| Also "fertility ties" |
Anonymous
| I really hate waiting for phone calls. I feel trapped until they come and when they are late worry it means bad news or broken news (i.e., lab didn't do x afterall) |
Anonymous
x1000 !! |
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| x100000000000 |
Anonymous
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This is not at all a serious thing and given what we all are going through a bit overly indulgent but maybe appropriate for this thread?
A woman I know is a huge whiner. She is not a bad person and means well but she always has 101 reasons why she just can't (whines all the time about how she needs to exercise but how she has a stuffy nose, or didn't sleep well, or had get up and pee during the night so she just can't or complains about her weight but then whines about how she just can't do anything about it since her son is always invited to birthday parties or she has to go on vacation where there will be good food or whatever). So, in general, not a bad person but just a "why oh why is everything so hard for me" person. Anyway, she is newly pregnant (which I really truly do not begrudge) and had a spotting scare (which I would not wish on anyone). Turns out things were fine but she WHINED about the "wand of shame"?! (aka sonogram) and how she "gushed" after getting her blood drawn. I couldn't chime in and mention I've had three blood draws and sonograms (which I don't consider shameful) since Monday but boy did I want to bap her on the head. |
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| I commend your self control- I probably would have even if I wasn't TTC! In my head I would have definately popped right in the nose... I spent the summer with the the wand of shame- we met almost daily. I don't think its shameful either but it does get kind old really fast. |
Anonymous
| Just realized I am bruised from the injections after mere 2 days. Is this common? Any way to avoid this? |
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I only have experience with menopur and ovidrel. After about 30 injecations total, I have only really bruised twice.
Once, I clearly had an air bubble I couldn't get out and that is what I blame. Have you been able to tap out all small air pockets? The other time was kind of random. I was rushing a bit and didn't go in straight. Are you super thin by any chance? I have found it's important to find a spot with at least pinch of fat. |
Anonymous
The very first time I did an injection, I must've hit a blood vessel. I had a large bruise that stuck around for several days. Since then, I haven't hit another one of those suckers, but I wind up with red marks on the actual injection site and small bruising from time to time around the injection site. I called my RE's office & I even showed my tummy to my doctor & nurse at some point and asked if it was normal and was reassured it was fine. We are just overly programmed to worry at this point (completely understandably, by the way). You're probably fine. If you want to feel better, just show your doc or nurse at your next monitoring appointment. They will provide reassurance as well. Good luck. |
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| I'm worried that I messed up my trigger. We had very long standing plans for a friends milestone birthday and I had to trigger in the not best of environments. I couldn't see well and think quite a few drops flew out of the syringe when I was pushing out the air bubble. This morning I used a Wondfo to test and it was positive but pretty light given I triggered last night. I don't know if positive is good enough or if I left too much HCG on the sidewalk (yes, this had to happen outside for reasons that are too random for even this thread) |
Anonymous
Some bruising will happen. But here's what I've found helps (and sad to say, I've done enough injections to have "perfected" the technique): ice before and after with a little pressure (those ice packs that come with your order are helpful here, be sure to wipe your skin with alcohol before injecting); pinch a fold of skin to inject into; use a quick, purposeful stabbing motion; pull the needle out slowly and apply gauze/ice with pressure immediately. The above procedure seemed to reduce bruising a lot for me... |
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| This 2ww is killing me. One more week to go. |
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Some bruising is normal especially if you have fair skin.
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