Men: would you date a woman with zero friends?

[Anonymous]

To all you ladies with no friends, what happened? Do you want friends and someone to talk to? Do you socialize at all? Do you do everything alone? What do you do when you need help?

[Anonymous]

It would be an orange flag for me. I would want to know why she didn't have any friends. If she were happy being without any friends I would worry she is happiest without any close relationships--including me.

If she didn't have any close friends because she recently moved from far away and is having trouble maintaining the connection I might be less concerned.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't see why not. It's never really occurred to me to ask a woman how many friends she has.

Cause women usually hate on other women who don’t have friends, and call them weird and pickmes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't see why not. It's never really occurred to me to ask a woman how many friends she has.

Cause women usually hate on other women who don’t have friends, and call them weird and pickmes.

That wouldn't bother me as long as I like her.

[Anonymous]

Like zero friends? Not even family or college buddies?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy with no social circle or friends close by. I rely on the wife to make our friends for us.

Ugh

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is she hot?

Yes, very. And she is close with family.

[Anonymous]

Probably not. It suggests poor priorities, and poor character. How can you get to 20 or 30 years old without friends?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious to hear men’s honest thoughts: Some women are perfectly content without friends and have no interest in social circles at all. How would you feel about dating someone like that?
Would it matter to you, and why? Do you see any differences compared to women who have friends, and would you prefer someone like this or not?

As long as I can sleep with her the first date, yes.

[Anonymous]

Men don’t care if she is hot, puts out, and is “low drama.” Aka deals with men’s BS with a smile and willing BJ.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It would be an orange flag for me. I would want to know why she didn't have any friends. If she were happy being without any friends I would worry she is happiest without any close relationships--including me.

If she didn't have any close friends because she recently moved from far away and is having trouble maintaining the connection I might be less concerned.

This is probably me and especially in this area where it's kind of hard to keep friends it's easy to make them but hard to keep them because they are so transient and busy. But it doesn't mean that we don't want to close relationships not at all. I love being affectionate with my SO and I'm very easy going no drama and I'm pretty nice I never have rbf

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious to hear men’s honest thoughts: Some women are perfectly content without friends and have no interest in social circles at all. How would you feel about dating someone like that?
Would it matter to you, and why? Do you see any differences compared to women who have friends, and would you prefer someone like this or not?

You should date men or women without friends if they weren't raised or educated in the area and moved here for work. It justifies their struggle. More so if they are people of color, immigrant or of a minority religion. Its tougher for them to make friends as adults in a new setting and takes longer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is she hot?

Maybe she's so hot that she drives jealous women away with her hotness!!!

/s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not a chance. In my experience, women who don’t have female friends are a huge red flag. They are typically avoidant.

+1 One of our best friends married a woman like this and she was/is a BPD nightmare. They had the world’s worst divorce about ten years in and she made life hell for him and their kids until he died of a stroke in his fifties. He said to me numerous times that her lack of female friends (his sisters were her wedding party) was a red flag that he stupidly ignored.

[Anonymous]

The best barometer for how someone will treat you is how they treat other people. They've spent several decades on the planet and haven't treated one person nice enough to have a friend?

This does not bode well for how she will treat you.

All the cavemen talking about guys only caring if she is hot and puts out--speak for yourselves.