Dating guy with concealed carry

[Anonymous]

Hopefully he keeps his gun zipped up and doesn't show it to you when you go for that meetup.

[Anonymous]

YOU seem way to focused on looks. You're over 30 and you say your big concern with online dating is that they won't be a "hot" as their photo? You seem pretty shallow and weird too that you would participate in this two-year online "relationship" with sexually explicit interactions. None of this is real.

[Anonymous]

You seem to focus on his legal permit to own and carry a gun, which is in no way a red flag, and ignore a slew of other red flags.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:YOU seem way to focused on looks. You're over 30 and you say your big concern with online dating is that they won't be a "hot" as their photo? You seem pretty shallow and weird too that you would participate in this two-year online "relationship" with sexually explicit interactions. None of this is real.

You misread. I said that I won't appear as hot as I am in my pictures and I don't like the awkwardness. And yes that goes for the guys too for both parties because I think attraction is also important. Of course that's not all there is to what I'm looking for and I am far from shallow. I never said it's all sexual interaction. In fact, I don't initiate it at all and he complains about that. But we do talk a lot about everything.

[Anonymous]

Just keep posted on when you are planning to have this in-person meet. I'll be sure to watch the TV news next day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You seem to focus on his legal permit to own and carry a gun, which is in no way a red flag, and ignore a slew of other red flags.

Pp is a walking red flag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You seem to focus on his legal permit to own and carry a gun, which is in no way a red flag, and ignore a slew of other red flags.

Pp is a walking red flag.

Sorry meant op

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So I've been talking to a guy I met online and I don't like online dating in general because I'm always afraid that they won't think I look as hot as my pictures or of the awkwardness etc. but I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 years. It's been long distance but he had moved to my state on a whim. So he conceals carry and I like him, but there are things about him that are very impulsive. And I think he has anxious attachment style too. So I'm a little nervous about meeting him because we also exchanged a lot of sexual stuff and I'm pretty shy in person and reserved. But I'm pretty let loose after you get to know me with friends. So I guess I'm just treading with caution and it's funny because I asked AI where we should meet and it immediately suggested police station or a very crowded place. So I don't know. I don't like online dating but it's the only way to meet people now especially being a shy girl like me. And I can't always tell when that guy likes me.

Bad idea to start out a relationship like this. He won't want a relationship, just a hook up.

Look up the burned haystack method before you head any further.

Then I must be the hottest 40-year-old because he moved here and got a job here in Virginia and his plan is to marry me. Yes, without meeting yet. I delayed it because I am a nervous anxious person too. And I'm shy. That's why I'm not married.

Please tell me this is a joke. Are you getting treatment for your mental health issues?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So I've been talking to a guy I met online and I don't like online dating in general because I'm always afraid that they won't think I look as hot as my pictures or of the awkwardness etc. but I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 years. It's been long distance but he had moved to my state on a whim. So he conceals carry and I like him, but there are things about him that are very impulsive. And I think he has anxious attachment style too. So I'm a little nervous about meeting him because we also exchanged a lot of sexual stuff and I'm pretty shy in person and reserved. But I'm pretty let loose after you get to know me with friends. So I guess I'm just treading with caution and it's funny because I asked AI where we should meet and it immediately suggested police station or a very crowded place. So I don't know. I don't like online dating but it's the only way to meet people now especially being a shy girl like me. And I can't always tell when that guy likes me.

Bad idea to start out a relationship like this. He won't want a relationship, just a hook up.

Look up the burned haystack method before you head any further.

Then I must be the hottest 40-year-old because he moved here and got a job here in Virginia and his plan is to marry me. Yes, without meeting yet. I delayed it because I am a nervous anxious person too. And I'm shy. That's why I'm not married.

And you should stay not married. This guy is a walking red flag and you're so desperate for the attention that youre ignoring them. Get some therapy and then consider dating.

[Anonymous]

As someone who did military service in my country guns scare the hell out of me. I always find it weird the fascination of Americans men with trying to appear so masculine and often gun ownership is associated with masculinity. It's really weird. And a lot of them never serve in the military either.

If I were woman personally I'll ask myself why a man feels so unsafe that he needs to walk around with a gun.

Anyways I am not American so my opinion doesn't matter. But I did a 1 year military service which included being stationed for 3 months in a conflict zone with constant artillery fire. Guns are scary folks.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You seem to focus on his legal permit to own and carry a gun, which is in no way a red flag, and ignore a slew of other red flags.

Pp is a walking red flag.

Sorry meant op

I agree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:YOU seem way to focused on looks. You're over 30 and you say your big concern with online dating is that they won't be a "hot" as their photo? You seem pretty shallow and weird too that you would participate in this two-year online "relationship" with sexually explicit interactions. None of this is real.

In fairness she is a woman and women care about looks. Northing wrong with that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As someone who did military service in my country guns scare the hell out of me. I always find it weird the fascination of Americans men with trying to appear so masculine and often gun ownership is associated with masculinity. It's really weird. And a lot of them never serve in the military either.

If I were woman personally I'll ask myself why a man feels so unsafe that he needs to walk around with a gun.

Anyways I am not American so my opinion doesn't matter. But I did a 1 year military service which included being stationed for 3 months in a conflict zone with constant artillery fire. Guns are scary folks.

I'm a woman and own a gun. Guns are scary indeed, especially if someone is trying to break into my house has one.

[Anonymous]

So in sum:

You've been talking for 2 years and have never met
He moved states so he can marry you, even though you've never met
He has anxious attachment issues
He's immature
He gets mad at you for not initiating video sex

The LEAST of your issues is the concealed carry

Please work on your obvious self esteem issues.