Dating guy with concealed carry

[Anonymous]

So I've been talking to a guy I met online and I don't like online dating in general because I'm always afraid that they won't think I look as hot as my pictures or of the awkwardness etc. but I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 years. It's been long distance but he had moved to my state on a whim. So he conceals carry and I like him, but there are things about him that are very impulsive. And I think he has anxious attachment style too. So I'm a little nervous about meeting him because we also exchanged a lot of sexual stuff and I'm pretty shy in person and reserved. But I'm pretty let loose after you get to know me with friends. So I guess I'm just treading with caution and it's funny because I asked AI where we should meet and it immediately suggested police station or a very crowded place. So I don't know. I don't like online dating but it's the only way to meet people now especially being a shy girl like me. And I can't always tell when that guy likes me.

[Anonymous]

Oh and I'm also not young or under 30 so please don't assume that

[Anonymous]

Meet up in a safe place and see how it goes. Keep an open mind.

[Anonymous]

I personally wouldn’t date him. The gun thing is not ok.

[Anonymous]

I'm a very conservative person. And I think it is a yellow flag. There are a couple reasons that it may be fine. 1. former infantry-just part of the culture 2. former law enforcement-same.

Otherwise, it signals to me that they're a weirdo. I have friends like this and they're weird. They have zero training, but they took this class that one time so they're a hero in their own minds already.

The normal people who carry concealed would not tell you in online chat.

[Anonymous]

Is it legal for him to carry in your state? Does he have permit?

[Anonymous]

The concealed carry wouldn't necessarily bother me. Impulsive and with an anxious attachment personality? Massive red flag. Why even bother?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I've been talking to a guy I met online and I don't like online dating in general because I'm always afraid that they won't think I look as hot as my pictures or of the awkwardness etc. but I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 years. It's been long distance but he had moved to my state on a whim. So he conceals carry and I like him, but there are things about him that are very impulsive. And I think he has anxious attachment style too. So I'm a little nervous about meeting him because we also exchanged a lot of sexual stuff and I'm pretty shy in person and reserved. But I'm pretty let loose after you get to know me with friends. So I guess I'm just treading with caution and it's funny because I asked AI where we should meet and it immediately suggested police station or a very crowded place. So I don't know. I don't like online dating but it's the only way to meet people now especially being a shy girl like me. And I can't always tell when that guy likes me.

Bad idea to start out a relationship like this. He won't want a relationship, just a hook up.

Look up the burned haystack method before you head any further.

[Anonymous]

Douchebag.

[Anonymous]

Are you sure this guy is real? 2 years to not meet in person is a long time. I’d be worried if he suddenly asks you to send him money to buy his plane ticket or something. This could be a scam. Just saying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So I've been talking to a guy I met online and I don't like online dating in general because I'm always afraid that they won't think I look as hot as my pictures or of the awkwardness etc. but I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 years. It's been long distance but he had moved to my state on a whim. So he conceals carry and I like him, but there are things about him that are very impulsive. And I think he has anxious attachment style too. So I'm a little nervous about meeting him because we also exchanged a lot of sexual stuff and I'm pretty shy in person and reserved. But I'm pretty let loose after you get to know me with friends. So I guess I'm just treading with caution and it's funny because I asked AI where we should meet and it immediately suggested police station or a very crowded place. So I don't know. I don't like online dating but it's the only way to meet people now especially being a shy girl like me. And I can't always tell when that guy likes me.

Bad idea to start out a relationship like this. He won't want a relationship, just a hook up.

Look up the burned haystack method before you head any further.

Then I must be the hottest 40-year-old because he moved here and got a job here in Virginia and his plan is to marry me. Yes, without meeting yet. I delayed it because I am a nervous anxious person too. And I'm shy. That's why I'm not married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you sure this guy is real? 2 years to not meet in person is a long time. I’d be worried if he suddenly asks you to send him money to buy his plane ticket or something. This could be a scam. Just saying.

Yes we video cammed before and yes, he is real and I think we're both attractive. Very attractive actually. But yes we are weird in different ways. I think that's why we get along well. And yes he has a permit for his concealed carry

[Anonymous]

There are so many red flags here I don’t even know where to start. I just hope this is a troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So I've been talking to a guy I met online and I don't like online dating in general because I'm always afraid that they won't think I look as hot as my pictures or of the awkwardness etc. but I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 years. It's been long distance but he had moved to my state on a whim. So he conceals carry and I like him, but there are things about him that are very impulsive. And I think he has anxious attachment style too. So I'm a little nervous about meeting him because we also exchanged a lot of sexual stuff and I'm pretty shy in person and reserved. But I'm pretty let loose after you get to know me with friends. So I guess I'm just treading with caution and it's funny because I asked AI where we should meet and it immediately suggested police station or a very crowded place. So I don't know. I don't like online dating but it's the only way to meet people now especially being a shy girl like me. And I can't always tell when that guy likes me.

Bad idea to start out a relationship like this. He won't want a relationship, just a hook up.

Look up the burned haystack method before you head any further.

Then I must be the hottest 40-year-old because he moved here and got a job here in Virginia and his plan is to marry me. Yes, without meeting yet. I delayed it because I am a nervous anxious person too. And I'm shy. That's why I'm not married.

RED FLAGS ABOUND

[Anonymous]

Don't listen to he haters. This is going to go great.