| "Normal" woman is a really wide range. One of my "normal" friends is a tiny, size 0 so not busty and not the type to be in a teeny tiny bikini. Women might say she's just cute but she has a ton of guys after her. Another normal friend is 5'8'' and not overweight in the slightest but she's not rail thin either. Women would also say she's cute and dresses well and is put together but she has a harder time with matches. |
| I think you're seeing the OLD size bias. Tall men getting a lot of matches, small women getting a lot of matches. |
Op here. I’m 5’1 and size 4. I’m not fat and I exercise and eat sensibly. I have a petite body! |
You’ve posted before. There’s someone who posts periodically about how they’re old and OLD is full of women in bikinis. Same writing style, lots of exclamation points! My guess is what PP said, some dude who’s upset nobody wants him and trying to knock older women down a few pegs. |
You don’t sound like a normal 38 year old woman. |
| How can you see your competition? Unless trying to date both genders? |
5’1 is tad too short for most men. Try adjusting your height to 5’3 see what happens |
You can do reverse search or create another account |
Thirst traps? This does not sound like a millennial woman |
then it’s the face. |
what is your size, weight and height and we can tell you if it is real or you are doing something wrong with OLD. |
| I am 43F, 5'3'' and 190 lbs. If I want action, I can get plenty of action so I just date but settling down with a long term relationship is a different issue. |
| Well, now you know. Adjust your expectations accordingly. |
I'm guessing you are below 5/10, but think you are "normal." |
This. |