Whoa. You really need to pull back and land the helicopter. He’s in college now. Not high school. |
Settle down. We're hardly over managing him. We only learned what classes he's taking 3 weeks into school and then had a conversation about the pros and cons of taking 18 hours because he brought it up. |
Yeah, seems like a normal conversation to have with your kid. I've had two go through UVA -18 credits is a lot first semester. Mine both were in the 15-16 range first semester. You never need to be over 15 to graduate on time. Sounds like it has not been too taxing so far, so it may be manageable for your kid school-wise. May be hard to get involved with other activities with that load, but every kid is different. |
Nice backtrack. OP's opening post said her son was "debating dropping a class." Now she says she suggested it. He was "debating" anything until got on him. I had two kids go to UVA. I never told them how many or how few classes to take. That's on them. |
| A lot of UVA kids come in with a ton of AP/DE credit, so taking under 15 a semester does not prevent them from graduating on time. |
Did he indicate why he felt the need to take so many credits 1st semester freshman year? There is a lot of adjustment settling in the first year. Our child’s advisor recommended not over scheduling, especially this first semester. You know your kid best, but I’d definitely recommend dropping that extra class if this were my kid. |
Or if she has a lot of APs or DE credits. |
| Freshman? |
You mean "first year," which also means you know nothing and have no connection to UVA |
Above is true for UVA A&S, but it does not apply to UVA Engineering at all. |
| In engineering, it is tough to graduate in 4 years if only taking 15 credit hours/semester. Many engineering degrees need visibly more than 120 hours to earn the BS degree. |
It’s a breeze right now because nothing is due, just wait for the time in a week or two when they all have their first exams. |
Always making UVA seem so appealing! Great job. NP |
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Most Engineering first years at UVA have 14-16 hours depending on major and where they are starting the calc sequence. 18 is overkill for first semester.
That being said, standard at the most rigorous E schools is 17-18 for freshmen, can easily be 20 in later years. |
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Engineering first year taking 13 credits. Actually just talked to him last night about his schedule and plans for 2nd semester. He came in with 36 credits and is planning to declare a 2nd major. We encouraged him to take a light 1st semester, adjust, get his bearings and take the time to plan out his remaining 7 semesters once he got a feel for the department and how things worked.
So far it's been a great decision for him. He's doing well in all of his classes. Tested out of 2 levels of Calc as well as Chem so is only doing Chem lab. He'll hit the ground running next semester and will take more credits. |