55+ communities and kids in college

[Anonymous]

It is quite a range. My Aunts 55 year old Community has a deal with town no children in community so no kids in development allowed to enroll kids in public school. However, they only require one person on deed be 55 or older. So there are people in community with kids. It is just owner has to be 55 and over.

My Brothers inlaws live Florida in a very restrictive 55 plus community. It allows NO children or grandchildren to live with owners. When my brother retired at 61 with his 57 year old wife to Florida they moved in briefly while house hunting in Florida and got a Eviction notice and fine and he had to leave. Even though he and wife were 61 and 57 the no children rule still applied.

On Long Island they have a rare 45 and up community I find interesting that allows no kids. Geared towards young active and cool childless couples, divorce people no kids, or single people never had kids. They have bars, dance club, pool, gym etc. Sounds like fun.

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Anonymous wrote:They cannot live in the house with you. They can visit. You would have to ask the communities you are interested in. FWIW these communities are extremely nosy, almost all old white MAGA and I could never imagine living in one.

Is this true?

Yes very very true

There are a few in Florida and one in Rehoboth not true.

I bought some speck homes during Covid in Rehoboth , Bethany , Lewes and Ocean Virw MAGA took over the HOAS horrible disgusting people. Lucky for me prices kept going up I made a killing. However many of these communities now have horrible reputations and people who bought later in the cycle can not sell for what they paid zero empathy .
And most of the homes are built poorly .

which one in Rehoboth? I love a bargain

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They cannot live in the house with you. They can visit. You would have to ask the communities you are interested in. FWIW these communities are extremely nosy, almost all old white MAGA and I could never imagine living in one.

Is this true?

Yes very very true

There are a few in Florida and one in Rehoboth not true.

I bought some speck homes during Covid in Rehoboth , Bethany , Lewes and Ocean Virw MAGA took over the HOAS horrible disgusting people. Lucky for me prices kept going up I made a killing. However many of these communities now have horrible reputations and people who bought later in the cycle can not sell for what they paid zero empathy .
And most of the homes are built poorly .

which one in Rehoboth? I love a bargain

Rehobeth is super MAGA too. Also, it will be underwater in 5 years. Good luck affording flood insurance.

[Anonymous]

In my mom’s, only one of the owners has to be 55+. Her neighbors are 51/56. Other neighbors have their 20-something son living with them. He tends bar at the pool and has set up a pet sitting business and does great business.

My kids spent a week there over the summer. No one under 18 is allowed in the big fancy community pool, but my parents have a pool at their house, so my kids didn’t care.

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Anonymous wrote:They cannot live in the house with you. They can visit. You would have to ask the communities you are interested in. FWIW these communities are extremely nosy, almost all old white MAGA and I could never imagine living in one.

Is this true?

Yes very very true

There are a few in Florida and one in Rehoboth not true.

I bought some speck homes during Covid in Rehoboth , Bethany , Lewes and Ocean Virw MAGA took over the HOAS horrible disgusting people. Lucky for me prices kept going up I made a killing. However many of these communities now have horrible reputations and people who bought later in the cycle can not sell for what they paid zero empathy .
And most of the homes are built poorly .

which one in Rehoboth? I love a bargain

Rehobeth is super MAGA too. Also, it will be underwater in 5 years. Good luck affording flood insurance.

As if I care who my neighbors voted for.

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Anonymous wrote:They cannot live in the house with you. They can visit. You would have to ask the communities you are interested in. FWIW these communities are extremely nosy, almost all old white MAGA and I could never imagine living in one.

Is this true?

Yes very very true

There are a few in Florida and one in Rehoboth not true.

I bought some speck homes during Covid in Rehoboth , Bethany , Lewes and Ocean Virw MAGA took over the HOAS horrible disgusting people. Lucky for me prices kept going up I made a killing. However many of these communities now have horrible reputations and people who bought later in the cycle can not sell for what they paid zero empathy .
And most of the homes are built poorly .

which one in Rehoboth? I love a bargain

Rehobeth is super MAGA too. Also, it will be underwater in 5 years. Good luck affording flood insurance.

As if I care who my neighbors voted for.

It matters - our beach community home is very maga and it is very challenging to listen at the pools, pickleball courts, restaurants…

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Anonymous wrote:They cannot live in the house with you. They can visit. You would have to ask the communities you are interested in. FWIW these communities are extremely nosy, almost all old white MAGA and I could never imagine living in one.

Is this true?

Yes very very true

There are a few in Florida and one in Rehoboth not true.

I bought some speck homes during Covid in Rehoboth , Bethany , Lewes and Ocean Virw MAGA took over the HOAS horrible disgusting people. Lucky for me prices kept going up I made a killing. However many of these communities now have horrible reputations and people who bought later in the cycle can not sell for what they paid zero empathy .
And most of the homes are built poorly .

which one in Rehoboth? I love a bargain

Rehobeth is super MAGA too. Also, it will be underwater in 5 years. Good luck affording flood insurance.

As if I care who my neighbors voted for.

It matters - our beach community home is very maga and it is very challenging to listen at the pools, pickleball courts, restaurants…

As if I talk to neighbors. But ironic Biden is from Rehoboth and turning MAGA.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They cannot live in the house with you. They can visit. You would have to ask the communities you are interested in. FWIW these communities are extremely nosy, almost all old white MAGA and I could never imagine living in one.

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I mean it totally depends. In South FL, a lot of communities are heavily Jewish. I assume this all depends on location.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They cannot live in the house with you. They can visit. You would have to ask the communities you are interested in. FWIW these communities are extremely nosy, almost all old white MAGA and I could never imagine living in one.

As a solid AOC/Bernie progressive myself, I must ask – why has literally everything in this country become about Democratic Party performativity??? MAGA sucks. Nothing new. Why need to insert their garbage into every single conversation?

I, for that matter, could in fact also never even conceive of living in such a community – families in my culture remain united – children support parents in their old age and there is no neoliberal outsourcing of what was typically [yes, gendered, emotional] family labor to third parties? But what do I know?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They cannot live in the house with you. They can visit. You would have to ask the communities you are interested in. FWIW these communities are extremely nosy, almost all old white MAGA and I could never imagine living in one.

Is this true?

65+
I don't want to think it's true but I know from my parents' experience at their 55+ community in Florida that it wasn't so long ago that no one knew or cared about their neighbors politics, but this age group has been sucked into FoxNews and consumes hours upon hours of it so they've gone pretty MAGA. I can't believe my once liberal Massachusetts parents have the views they do, but it's all because of FoxNews. So yes, I guess it's probably true that whereever you have a lot of old folks, you have a lot of MAGA.

That said, my parents living in a community that keeps them social and active is why they're aging so well and I would definitely want to do something similar when I'm 65+, for the health and wellness benefits. They're busy, have friends and keep moving, which is more than I can say for my ILs who are the same age but never get out and seem to be aging rapidly and health issues piling up.

My parents HOA has a 3 week limit on visitors, FWIW. So I don't know what would happen if a college aged kid came home for the summer. But I can see a scenario where a helpful 19 year old could make a killing doing tech support and simple home projects in their community!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is quite a range. My Aunts 55 year old Community has a deal with town no children in community so no kids in development allowed to enroll kids in public school. However, they only require one person on deed be 55 or older. So there are people in community with kids. It is just owner has to be 55 and over.

My Brothers inlaws live Florida in a very restrictive 55 plus community. It allows NO children or grandchildren to live with owners. When my brother retired at 61 with his 57 year old wife to Florida they moved in briefly while house hunting in Florida and got a Eviction notice and fine and he had to leave. Even though he and wife were 61 and 57 the no children rule still applied.

On Long Island they have a rare 45 and up community I find interesting that allows no kids. Geared towards young active and cool childless couples, divorce people no kids, or single people never had kids. They have bars, dance club, pool, gym etc. Sounds like fun.

This is interesting. Where is it? My parents are in their 70s and none of their friends moved into one of these, certainly not with kids in college. My impression was that 55+ was the floor but the skewed significantly older than that, so 45+ is hard to imagine but maybe my impression is wrong.

[Anonymous]

It varies.

My mom’s 55+ community has quiet hours, strict kids' policy at the pool, no cars parked in the street after 9pm, no playgrounds on the premises, social events are geared to seniors (chair aerobics, for ex) to name a few

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They cannot live in the house with you. They can visit. You would have to ask the communities you are interested in. FWIW these communities are extremely nosy, almost all old white MAGA and I could never imagine living in one.

Is this true?

65+
I don't want to think it's true but I know from my parents' experience at their 55+ community in Florida that it wasn't so long ago that no one knew or cared about their neighbors politics, but this age group has been sucked into FoxNews and consumes hours upon hours of it so they've gone pretty MAGA. I can't believe my once liberal Massachusetts parents have the views they do, but it's all because of FoxNews. So yes, I guess it's probably true that whereever you have a lot of old folks, you have a lot of MAGA.

That said, my parents living in a community that keeps them social and active is why they're aging so well and I would definitely want to do something similar when I'm 65+, for the health and wellness benefits. They're busy, have friends and keep moving, which is more than I can say for my ILs who are the same age but never get out and seem to be aging rapidly and health issues piling up.

My parents HOA has a 3 week limit on visitors, FWIW. So I don't know what would happen if a college aged kid came home for the summer. But I can see a scenario where a helpful 19 year old could make a killing doing tech support and simple home projects in their community!

The 65+ demographic is the one demographic bucking trends and becoming more democratic, not less, in the last two elections. Just a FYI. It is getting patently ridiculous how seemingly every thread gets interrupted by someone screaming MAGA. That's half the electorate, half of America. If you have issues, it's your issue, not theirs.

As it is, people who tend to buy into HOAs tend to lean conservative just as people who buy in urban neighborhoods tend to lean progressive. There is nothing new here, it's been the case for my entire life. So why act surprised if you buy into a 55+ community and discover your neighbors are conservative Republicans? It's as blind as a conservative Republican buying into an urban neighborhood and finding out all his neighbors are liberal progressives.

[Anonymous]

My parents 55+ community the max a person that isn’t them can stay is 14 days. Check the rules.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure how, but I had no idea about these restrictions. Why in the world would I or anyone ever want to live in a place where it's ONLY old people? I just thought 55+ mean that's who they primarily cater to. Ick. No way. And I say that was a 58 year old. I want to be surrounded by people of all ages for the rest of my days.