Why are women more likely to go after a man who is already partnered?

[Anonymous]

They are skanks.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think women prefer partnered men over single. When I find out a guy is sleeping with someone else, I stop sleeping with him

[Anonymous]

I think you're interpreting men being more likely to cheat as women being more likely to go after attached men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are women more likely to go after a man who is already partnered?

It's very uncommon for men to knowingly go after a woman who already has a man. But for some women, they just don't care it's as if the other woman doesn't exist.

What kind if women do you know? I'd never go after a partnered man and I don't think any of my friends would either. I'm fairly certain they would be judged in our friend group. You need better quality friends.

Yes, what women are like this, going after married men? Asking for a friend.

[Anonymous]

I am a married woman and married men peruse me all the time. I have never gone after a man single or taken, I always wait for them to come after me.

[Anonymous]

I'm a single woman and married men are the ones always eyeballing me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's because the partnered male went through an earlier quality check and passed. And that makes things more efficient.

So you're saying since another woman had them they are "quality checked". Bah!!! So many women are gross too, so it's meaningless.

Let's call it safety checked and perhaps trained. I got three with no prior experience of being a couple. I saw why not later. Two masking ASD and thinking they are doing great masking it and third one had some childhood trauma. Blew up out of nowhere for no reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are women more likely to go after a man who is already partnered?

It's very uncommon for men to knowingly go after a woman who already has a man. But for some women, they just don't care it's as if the other woman doesn't exist.

I dispute the premise

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are women more likely to go after a man who is already partnered?

It's very uncommon for men to knowingly go after a woman who already has a man. But for some women, they just don't care it's as if the other woman doesn't exist.

Immoral, unethical and selfish.

[Anonymous]

They’re not, pot stirrer.

[Anonymous]

I have been pursued by single women not once , not twice but three times. All of them knew I were not single. Draw your own conclusions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your premise is flawed.

How do?

OP makes very broad statements about men and women with zero evidence to back up either. Some PPs have disputed OP’s statements, which invalidates OP’s premises.

OP is merely looking for a little fun. And an excuse to call women names.

[Anonymous]

More desirable men are, all else being equal, more likely to have a partner already. As the stigma of poaching such men has declined, there is more upside in pursuing such a man. This does not seem so hard to explain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are women more likely to go after a man who is already partnered?

It's very uncommon for men to knowingly go after a woman who already has a man. But for some women, they just don't care it's as if the other woman doesn't exist.

Immoral, unethical and selfish.

DH here: one of the reasons men tend to avoid going after women who are already partnered is that you never know which guy is crazy enough to do something extreme out of sexual jealousy. This doesn’t happen very often, of course, but at the margin there is some deterrent effect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are women more likely to go after a man who is already partnered?

It's very uncommon for men to knowingly go after a woman who already has a man. But for some women, they just don't care it's as if the other woman doesn't exist.

Immoral, unethical and selfish.

DH here: one of the reasons men tend to avoid going after women who are already partnered is that you never know which guy is crazy enough to do something extreme out of sexual jealousy. This doesn’t happen very often, of course, but at the margin there is some deterrent effect.

+1. Let's just look at real world evidence. Who is more likely to cause harm if their partners is approached?