What do you do to keep your relationship with husband flirty ?

[Anonymous]

If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Probably been a thread here before on this but I cant find any. I am 56 years old and married for 22 years.
Our marriage has gone through many ups and downs, been troubled in recent years, gone though with responsibilities with both sets of parents.
We are trying to give it a stronger try … me more than him.
How do I spark this marriage in every way? Our s- - life is very dim too.
I do see him being vibrant with few other female friends . He enjoys that attention.
I want to put the sparkle and flirtation back … need ideas and inputs - Thanks.

Do you take a long time to have an orgasm? Sometimes it becomes work and i would rather sleep. If she was able to get herself off, it would make things easier.

Are you for real?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already

You're so gullible. You're talking to a dude with a lot of wishful thinking because he is watching too much po&&. No woman does that, especially after being married 20 years.

[Anonymous]

Enthusiasm (in bed and in general). Not over the top but being present in the moment. Active listening in normal conversations. Asking questions. Genuinely laughing. Touching. Bump into him when you're in the kitchen and linger a little.

If you're into it, try some new stuff in bed or do stuff in other rooms in the house that might surprise him. In the morning, tell him something you want to do to him later and then follow through. Whatever you do in bed, do it like it's the only thing you want to do in that moment and have fun!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already

You're so gullible. You're talking to a dude with a lot of wishful thinking because he is watching too much po&&. No woman does that, especially after being married 20 years.

I would make my husband a drink dressed like this. No way am I doing housework to try to get his interest lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already

You're so gullible. You're talking to a dude with a lot of wishful thinking because he is watching too much po&&. No woman does that, especially after being married 20 years.

Speak for yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already

You're so gullible. You're talking to a dude with a lot of wishful thinking because he is watching too much po&&. No woman does that, especially after being married 20 years.

Not true, been together 26 years and my chick knows the power of the stiletto.

[Anonymous]

Wear FMP’s to bed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already

You're so gullible. You're talking to a dude with a lot of wishful thinking because he is watching too much po&&. No woman does that, especially after being married 20 years.

Not true, been together 26 years and my chick knows the power of the stiletto.

Your chick? suuuurreeeeee

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already

You're so gullible. You're talking to a dude with a lot of wishful thinking because he is watching too much po&&. No woman does that, especially after being married 20 years.

I would make my husband a drink dressed like this. No way am I doing housework to try to get his interest lol.

Pp here. I’m not mopping or cleaning the toilets!
I pull clothes out of the dryer. Make the bed. Lightly dust. Things like that. I don’t know that my house actually gets cleaner. I just like it when he follows me around

[Anonymous]

Oops

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already

You're so gullible. You're talking to a dude with a lot of wishful thinking because he is watching too much po&&. No woman does that, especially after being married 20 years.

I'm not the original PP, but I've done this multiple times. Granted, it was a lot more frequent earlier in our relationship, and we've only been together 15 years, so the version of this I did over the weekend doesn't count, I guess.

As for the OP, it sounds like you need to figure out how to enjoy spending time with your husband. He lights up in those other interactions because he's having fun. The conversation is good, zesty, whatever. He enjoys the attention. You just have to figure out how to enjoy being around him for real, so that the laughter and sparkle are spontaneous. There is no study manual for "how to be charming to your husband" here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already

You're so gullible. You're talking to a dude with a lot of wishful thinking because he is watching too much po&&. No woman does that, especially after being married 20 years.

I would make my husband a drink dressed like this. No way am I doing housework to try to get his interest lol.

Pp here. I’m not mopping or cleaning the toilets!
I pull clothes out of the dryer. Make the bed. Lightly dust. Things like that. I don’t know that my house actually gets cleaner. I just like it when he follows me around

Vacuum under furniture. 😉

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I want DH’s attention, I fix him a drink wearing just an apron and heels. If he doesn’t notice, I keep doing other housework until he does. Pretty soon he’s following me around the house.

Sweet Jesus ... that's working on me already

You're so gullible. You're talking to a dude with a lot of wishful thinking because he is watching too much po&&. No woman does that, especially after being married 20 years.

I'm not the original PP, but I've done this multiple times. Granted, it was a lot more frequent earlier in our relationship, and we've only been together 15 years, so the version of this I did over the weekend doesn't count, I guess.

As for the OP, it sounds like you need to figure out how to enjoy spending time with your husband. He lights up in those other interactions because he's having fun. The conversation is good, zesty, whatever. He enjoys the attention. You just have to figure out how to enjoy being around him for real, so that the laughter and sparkle are spontaneous. There is no study manual for "how to be charming to your husband" here.

Yes zesty is the word. He has pretty zesty conversations with other women.

We do need to work on that.