What do you do to keep your relationship with husband flirty ?
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Anonymous
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Probably been a thread here before on this but I cant find any. I am 56 years old and married for 22 years.
Our marriage has gone through many ups and downs, been troubled in recent years, gone though with responsibilities with both sets of parents. We are trying to give it a stronger try … me more than him. How do I spark this marriage in every way? Our s- - life is very dim too. I do see him being vibrant with few other female friends . He enjoys that attention. I want to put the sparkle and flirtation back … need ideas and inputs - Thanks. |
Anonymous
| Are you in shape? |
Anonymous
| Go out and do you own stuff. That’s not a joke, it’s the thing that works best. |
Anonymous
| You say your s** life is dim. But you don't say it's non-existent. Try to build on it. Slowly add more frequency. When you feel yourself getting more confident, bring up trying something new. |
Anonymous
| Do you compliment him? Touch affectionately outside of the bedroom? |
Anonymous
| Your husband wants you to desire him. Show him. Be fun and smile. In short, act like a silly, love-struck teenage girl who is having fun. |
Anonymous
| Serve him something different in bed and in the kitchen. One can eat only so much meatloaf. |
Anonymous
| Do you actually enjoy his company or do you just want to avoid divorce? |
Anonymous
| Read mating in captivity |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| Spice up your sex life. Go on dates that require interaction (i.e not the movies). Be affectionate without leading up to sex. Let some of the responsibilities of life go a little and spend a weekend just being fun and carefree. |
Anonymous
| Get a haircut. |
Anonymous
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I think men and women see flirting differently. Women see it as an end in itself. Men see it as leading up to something. Don’t flirt and talk about sex if you aren’t planning on following through. It’s like talking to a child about what kind of ice cream they like and how you are going to go later and then not actually going to get ice cream.
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Anonymous
Do you take a long time to have an orgasm? Sometimes it becomes work and i would rather sleep. If she was able to get herself off, it would make things easier. |
Anonymous
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I like to buy a few sexy things and try them on for him. Doesn’t have to be lingerie. It can be a sexy sundress. This is my husband’s favorite:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B094NKBXZS?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title |