Babysitter was in our bedroom

[Anonymous]

This would rank very low on my list of concerns. Was the door to bedroom shut? If so that’s slightly more of an issue but I still wouldn’t think it was a big deal. If you got him again I’d just ask him not to go into your bedroom. He probably was looking for a charger or wanted to see the view out the window or just was curious to see if your unit was different from his.

[Anonymous]

When I was a teen babysitter I used to peek around the house. It was just interesting. I assume some of the babysitters we have hired have done the same but it's one of those things it's better not to think about. I just wouldn't worry about this..

[Anonymous]

What's your concern?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hide your dildo better next time.

Seriously.

[Anonymous]

It's weird that someone who is so bothered by this would also let a complete stranger watch their kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What are you going to say to the director? "The sitter was standing in the doorway of our bedroom!!!! "

You'll get yourself labeled as the crazy family.

Something tells me that ship has sailed long ago.

[Anonymous]

Not a thing to worry about.

[Anonymous]

I would not let a male I did not know babysit my kids. Safer to leave the 11 year old in charge

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would not let a male I did not know babysit my kids. Safer to leave the 11 year old in charge

That's what I find trollish about this post. OP is completely fine with a male stranger watching her kids but freaking out that she saw him standing in the doorway of the parent's bedroom. It makes no sense.

[Anonymous]

I’d say something, and I’d lock my bedroom when I leave - with any valuables inside.
It’s unprofessional for sitter to be in there, for any reason.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they were looking out the window.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d say something, and I’d lock my bedroom when I leave - with any valuables inside.
It’s unprofessional for sitter to be in there, for any reason.

Right because this family camp has locks on the outside of bedroom doors.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think kids today are raised that adult bedrooms are private spaces. Reading about the woman in the 80s who would play in her parents bedroom because they had a waterbed astounded me because I was not allowed in my parents room or my grandparents room unless I was invited. Even today as an adult, I do not go into their bedrooms without an invitation. I always made it clear that my child was not to play in my bedroom or have friends in there, but if I was in my room, they did not need an invitation to come in. It may be a generational thing.

[Anonymous]

Wait, you were home by 11, but your 11-year-old was asleep when the sitter arrived? Were you out for 20 minutes? Can we just talk about that for a sec?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would not let a male I did not know babysit my kids. Safer to leave the 11 year old in charge

Right? An 11-year-old at "family camp" doesn't even need a sitter. Plus, they were apparently in bed by like 8 pm. This is so weird.