DH asked for less sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do most people want to have sex daily? Other than at the beginning of a relationship? I have a high pressure job, and kids with complex needs, and I certainly don't. Maybe 2-3 times a week.

I wouldn't think anything is up with him. But you all just need to figure out how to balance your different drives.

I do. I love sex and love it as a stress relief and a nice end to my day. Some people like a glass of wine. I like an orgasm to end the day.

You can still have an orgasm. Hard to imagine an adult wrote this post.

Yes but I like it with him. I’m not really into masturbating.

[Anonymous]

OP do you strictly want PIV? Eating you out doesn't require that much physical stamina lol. I think he can do that every day if you want. Or he can use toys on you. Or give you massages.

But if you want every intimate moment to include PIV you are going to be very disappointed. As men age, their ability to have strong erections daily and/or cum more than once in a single day gradually decreases.

[Anonymous]

I do not find this post to be real but I will play along…. I am a woman with a high sex drive and did (still can) have sex every day with my husband. We both could! However, I realized that our daily sex lacked so much intimacy and connection. I had sex daily, like you, to relieve stress. It was a way to get myself off and release. It had nothing to do with building a physical relationship with my husband. Our daily sex became so chore like. We brush our teeth every night, shower and have sex. Now, we do it every couple of days. It helped to build our intimacy when we were not doing it. It made me crave him more. It made the sex better. It was more spontaneous and less chore like. You said you were shocked by this but had no question. The shock does not matter. He asked for something in which you, as a wife, is capable of giving him. So do a day or two less. Again, I think this post is fake but we can role play….

[Anonymous]

If you’re an adult with a fully developed frontal lobe claiming to need daily sex I think you’re gross. This is beyond weird. Get a vibrator and be normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The women on this forum have the highest sex drive of any women in this universe. Many can have sex everyday well into their 70s.

Is it because their husbands are invariably on the spectrum?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve always been high drive and find him incredibly attractive and sexy. We have had sex most days since our relationship started. He asked me today we can skip sex here and there because he is often too tired and physically doesn’t want it. I don’t think he’s cheating but I’m a little surprised by his decision.

That's ridiculous. You have needs, and he's not fulfilling them. Tell him that you're going to have a one-sided open marriage. If he doesn't respond positively, rethink the marriage. Simple.

Tell that to my 55 years old wife. I need sex everyday she says she can only do it at most once a week. I am 49. Do you have a solution for me?

Yeah, stop bothering your wife.

[Anonymous]

Daily is a lot. This is not Low T. That is no sex for months or years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do most people want to have sex daily? Other than at the beginning of a relationship? I have a high pressure job, and kids with complex needs, and I certainly don't. Maybe 2-3 times a week.

I wouldn't think anything is up with him. But you all just need to figure out how to balance your different drives.

I do. I love sex and love it as a stress relief and a nice end to my day. Some people like a glass of wine. I like an orgasm to end the day.

You can still have an orgasm. Hard to imagine an adult wrote this post.

Yes but I like it with him. I’m not really into masturbating.

You don’t need sex daily. This is ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP do you strictly want PIV? Eating you out doesn't require that much physical stamina lol. I think he can do that every day if you want. Or he can use toys on you. Or give you massages.

But if you want every intimate moment to include PIV you are going to be very disappointed. As men age, their ability to have strong erections daily and/or cum more than once in a single day gradually decreases.

I want oral and PIV. I love giving him oral too. He said some days he is physically exhausted and doesn’t want sex. He can still get an erection and lasts fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do not find this post to be real but I will play along…. I am a woman with a high sex drive and did (still can) have sex every day with my husband. We both could! However, I realized that our daily sex lacked so much intimacy and connection. I had sex daily, like you, to relieve stress. It was a way to get myself off and release. It had nothing to do with building a physical relationship with my husband. Our daily sex became so chore like. We brush our teeth every night, shower and have sex. Now, we do it every couple of days. It helped to build our intimacy when we were not doing it. It made me crave him more. It made the sex better. It was more spontaneous and less chore like. You said you were shocked by this but had no question. The shock does not matter. He asked for something in which you, as a wife, is capable of giving him. So do a day or two less. Again, I think this post is fake but we can role play….

It’s not fake. I’ve always been one to use sex as a stress relief. That and working out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most DWs on here would happily take him!

And most DHs on here would happily take her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do most people want to have sex daily? Other than at the beginning of a relationship? I have a high pressure job, and kids with complex needs, and I certainly don't. Maybe 2-3 times a week.

I wouldn't think anything is up with him. But you all just need to figure out how to balance your different drives.

I do. I love sex and love it as a stress relief and a nice end to my day. Some people like a glass of wine. I like an orgasm to end the day.

You can still have an orgasm. Hard to imagine an adult wrote this post.

Yes but I like it with him. I’m not really into masturbating.

He is beginning to find you less attractive and the sex has gotten boring.

[Anonymous]

If in any way this is real, your horniness is sometimes your own business. He's not really into daily sex. You aren't really into masturbating. You either pleasure yourself here and there or go without here and there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve always been high drive and find him incredibly attractive and sexy. We have had sex most days since our relationship started. He asked me today we can skip sex here and there because he is often too tired and physically doesn’t want it. I don’t think he’s cheating but I’m a little surprised by his decision.

That's ridiculous. You have needs, and he's not fulfilling them. Tell him that you're going to have a one-sided open marriage. If he doesn't respond positively, rethink the marriage. Simple.

Tell that to my 55 years old wife. I need sex everyday she says she can only do it at most once a week. I am 49. Do you have a solution for me?

Probably should of married someone your own age.. closer to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do most people want to have sex daily? Other than at the beginning of a relationship? I have a high pressure job, and kids with complex needs, and I certainly don't. Maybe 2-3 times a week.

I wouldn't think anything is up with him. But you all just need to figure out how to balance your different drives.

I do. I love sex and love it as a stress relief and a nice end to my day. Some people like a glass of wine. I like an orgasm to end the day.

You can still have an orgasm. Hard to imagine an adult wrote this post.

Yes but I like it with him. I’m not really into masturbating.

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