DH asked for less sex

[Anonymous]

I’ve always been high drive and find him incredibly attractive and sexy. We have had sex most days since our relationship started. He asked me today we can skip sex here and there because he is often too tired and physically doesn’t want it. I don’t think he’s cheating but I’m a little surprised by his decision.

[Anonymous]

Do most people want to have sex daily? Other than at the beginning of a relationship? I have a high pressure job, and kids with complex needs, and I certainly don't. Maybe 2-3 times a week.

I wouldn't think anything is up with him. But you all just need to figure out how to balance your different drives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do most people want to have sex daily? Other than at the beginning of a relationship? I have a high pressure job, and kids with complex needs, and I certainly don't. Maybe 2-3 times a week.

I wouldn't think anything is up with him. But you all just need to figure out how to balance your different drives.

I do. I love sex and love it as a stress relief and a nice end to my day. Some people like a glass of wine. I like an orgasm to end the day.

[Anonymous]

So switch things up - see if you can skip a day during the week and a day on the weekend and if that's enough of a break for him.

[Anonymous]

Most DWs on here would happily take him!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve always been high drive and find him incredibly attractive and sexy. We have had sex most days since our relationship started. He asked me today we can skip sex here and there because he is often too tired and physically doesn’t want it. I don’t think he’s cheating but I’m a little surprised by his decision.

That's ridiculous. You have needs, and he's not fulfilling them. Tell him that you're going to have a one-sided open marriage. If he doesn't respond positively, rethink the marriage. Simple.

[Anonymous]

How long ago did your relationship start?

[Anonymous]

Low T
ADHD
Porn Addiction
He needs to do more chores

[Anonymous]

The women on this forum have the highest sex drive of any women in this universe. Many can have sex everyday well into their 70s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve always been high drive and find him incredibly attractive and sexy. We have had sex most days since our relationship started. He asked me today we can skip sex here and there because he is often too tired and physically doesn’t want it. I don’t think he’s cheating but I’m a little surprised by his decision.

That's ridiculous. You have needs, and he's not fulfilling them. Tell him that you're going to have a one-sided open marriage. If he doesn't respond positively, rethink the marriage. Simple.

Tell that to my 55 years old wife. I need sex everyday she says she can only do it at most once a week. I am 49. Do you have a solution for me?

[Anonymous]

This is a troll post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How long ago did your relationship start?

4.5 years ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a troll post.

It isn’t. Some women like sex. We are not all celibate or open for shop once a month.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do most people want to have sex daily? Other than at the beginning of a relationship? I have a high pressure job, and kids with complex needs, and I certainly don't. Maybe 2-3 times a week.

I wouldn't think anything is up with him. But you all just need to figure out how to balance your different drives.

I do. I love sex and love it as a stress relief and a nice end to my day. Some people like a glass of wine. I like an orgasm to end the day.

You can still have an orgasm. Hard to imagine an adult wrote this post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Low T
ADHD
Porn Addiction
He needs to do more chores

What? Why would he need to do more chores? He doesn’t have Low T, a porn addiction, or ADHD.