Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

[Anonymous]

I am content to let DH take the lead. I never turn him down unless it’s that time of the month, but he usually knows to stay away then, LOL. On vacations we’re more even.

[Anonymous]

It’s roughly even for us and we’re about 1-2x a week and every day when on vacation. On the weekends she likes to have a glass of wine and a gummie, make dinner and have sex. I onow I’ll catch some flack from the pearl clutchers regarding thc. But, guy’s - if you haven’t had sex with your wife on a thc gummie then you’re really missing out. I was pretty shocked the first time we did it.

[Anonymous]

DW initiates about 90% of the time. It used to be the reverse, but after getting rejected 10 times in a row, I stopped.

Now we barely have sex, but when we do, she almost always initiated it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s roughly even for us and we’re about 1-2x a week and every day when on vacation. On the weekends she likes to have a glass of wine and a gummie, make dinner and have sex. I onow I’ll catch some flack from the pearl clutchers regarding thc. But, guy’s - if you haven’t had sex with your wife on a thc gummie then you’re really missing out. I was pretty shocked the first time we did it.

I take gummies and don’t notice much difference 😂

[Anonymous]

DW is naked and on all fours on the bed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DW is naked and on all fours on the bed.

She is testing you. If you approach she will be upset because you alway pester her for sex. If you do not approach she will be upset. Best just to ignore it and slip out of the house without being seen.

[Anonymous]

My wife is a freak and she is not shy about what she wants. And I'm always ready to fire. We both initiate. A few days before and after her periods I know what awaits me cause she is DTF she extra wet

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is a freak and she is not shy about what she wants. And I'm always ready to fire. We both initiate. A few days before and after her periods I know what awaits me cause she is DTF she extra wet

You are trying too hard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If so, how do they do it? Also, what do you do to prioritize your intimate life and keep it on track?

If you need a schedule the passion is dead.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I'll drop a subtle hint that I'm interested but she gets to pick exactly when it happens. I guess that counts as me initiating?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW is naked and on all fours on the bed.

She is testing you. If you approach she will be upset because you alway pester her for sex. If you do not approach she will be upset. Best just to ignore it and slip out of the house without being seen.

No, you don’t know my DW. She’s a horny and kinky 55 year young woman!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW is naked and on all fours on the bed.

She is testing you. If you approach she will be upset because you alway pester her for sex. If you do not approach she will be upset. Best just to ignore it and slip out of the house without being seen.

No, you don’t know my DW. She’s a horny and kinky 55 year young woman!

lol!

[Anonymous]

99% me and I'm ok with that because I have a significantly higher drive than DH. Always have. He never turns me down, so I guess it works for us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW is naked and on all fours on the bed.

She is testing you. If you approach she will be upset because you alway pester her for sex. If you do not approach she will be upset. Best just to ignore it and slip out of the house without being seen.

No, you don’t know my DW. She’s a horny and kinky 55 year young woman!

lol!

What did I miss…? Why is this funny?

[Anonymous]

It’s pretty mutual so hard to say who initiates. We’re in bed, start kissing, that’s that.