Say something to dh?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He probably wanted a little fun time. Nothing wrong with that. Keep the flaming the fire so it doesn't die.

right. if my long distance dh showed up naked on our dieo chat that would be m assumption. I'm guessing there are other issues at play here. maybe OP didn't want him to take the job or she resents being a solo parent. something. i can't imagine she's truly upset about him being 10 minutes late and naked.

[Anonymous]

"Love you hun, but could you put on some shorts in case a kid walks in"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I’m the only one who would tease their DH?

sexually? No. I'd lock the door and hope the kids stayed asleep

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He was late because he was working on something went to grab something to eat and thought he had enough time to shower first. He was naked.. and I suggested that he cover up and he said
" It's just you." Which it was at the time but as I said sometimes the kids walk in

So you can to DCUM to help you crowd source your righteous indignation. Did the stork drop your kids down a chimney?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Love you hun, but could you put on some shorts in case a kid walks in"

This. thought that probably isn't even necessary if a kid walked in OP could pretty easily block the screen to give him enough time to cover himself. honestly I think she's upset about something else and this is how it's manifesting

[Anonymous]

What in the nothing burger is this? Please tell me you are trolling, OP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He was late because he was working on something went to grab something to eat and thought he had enough time to shower first. He was naked.. and I suggested that he cover up and he said
" It's just you." Which it was at the time but as I said sometimes the kids walk in

So lock the door so the kids can't barge in? Or tell him you think the kids are going to barge in, so he should cover up? Also, can you clarify, is his full body naked on the screen?

[Anonymous]

Kids can't see dad shirtless? You are a prude making up problems.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He was late because he was working on something went to grab something to eat and thought he had enough time to shower first. He was naked.. and I suggested that he cover up and he said
" It's just you." Which it was at the time but as I said sometimes the kids walk in

So what? You are nuts, lady. He wanted to freeball so you wouldn't be even MORE bent out of shape about him running late. He can't win with you. I wouldn't be surprised if he has more work trips just to get away from you.

[Anonymous]

Wow these are your concerns OP?

[Anonymous]

I'd file for divorce. He's obviously cheating and rubbing it in your face!

[Anonymous]

I'd ask him to put on a shirt and shorts next time if that's what you want, but I wouldn't make a big deal about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He was late because he was working on something went to grab something to eat and thought he had enough time to shower first. He was naked.. and I suggested that he cover up and he said
" It's just you." Which it was at the time but as I said sometimes the kids walk in

So you can to DCUM to help you crowd source your righteous indignation. Did the stork drop your kids down a chimney?

Just choked on my water. Thanks for that.

[Anonymous]

As someone who just had their entire relationship destroyed when we had to go long distance - encourage the intimacy and closeness, and realness like you would if together, even though it’s just online. It can be hard to rebuild that again once it’s lost.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He was late because he was working on something went to grab something to eat and thought he had enough time to shower first. He was naked.. and I suggested that he cover up and he said
" It's just you." Which it was at the time but as I said sometimes the kids walk in

Your DH is right, and you need to unclench. Your poor DH. DH sleeps in the nude. He called me and DD while in bed (he was overseas and tired from dealing with his parent's estate; parent had just passed away). It was chest up. BFD. He's already stressed. I'm not going to pile on. Good gracious.

-dw