Say something to dh?

[Anonymous]

DH and I are currently long distance for the next couple of months. We've been doing nightly or every other nightly calls. Last night he was 10 minutes late for our call which whatever but he showed up undressed clearly just out of the shower and didn't bother to get dressed during our call. Now before I get called a pride I'm bothered because it just reeks of thoughtless and poor time management and occasionally one of our kids walks in wanting to say hi to Dad. They didn't this time but still. And I don't know how to mention this without seeming ridiculous

[Anonymous]

you are ridiculous. Sh*t happens. Maybe he was super tired and felt grubby and wanted to shower first.

-DW

[Anonymous]

He was ten minutes late so you accuse him of bad time management? Poor him! Was he naked or just in his boxer shorts?

If this is what he’s going to face over the next two months he may be showering for some other reason.

[Anonymous]

I fixed your post, OP:

"I don't have any problems, so I am going to create some real quick."

[Anonymous]

Your husband.. Simply ask him why was he late and half dressed.

[Anonymous]

Stop with the FaceTime, then you wouldn’t know how he is dressed.

[Anonymous]

Can't you just say "hey wait a second, so dad can get dressed?" You don't stay dressed every minute of the day when you live with your kids, even though they might try to come talk to you.

[Anonymous]

Op here. He was late because he was working on something went to grab something to eat and thought he had enough time to shower first. He was naked.. and I suggested that he cover up and he said
" It's just you." Which it was at the time but as I said sometimes the kids walk in

[Anonymous]

I mean…could you actually see his meat? I’m assuming the FaceTime was form the chest up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He was late because he was working on something went to grab something to eat and thought he had enough time to shower first. He was naked.. and I suggested that he cover up and he said
" It's just you." Which it was at the time but as I said sometimes the kids walk in

Then you say “do me a favor and call me back when you are dressed in case the kids walk in”. This really is not difficult OP.

[Anonymous]

He probably wanted a little fun time. Nothing wrong with that. Keep the flaming the fire so it doesn't die.

[Anonymous]

My DH makes a point of getting naked before facetiming me!

Agree with the PP who suggested this is nothing like a "problem." Check back in when you find one?

[Anonymous]

So I’m the only one who would tease their DH?

[Anonymous]

WTF is this??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH and I are currently long distance for the next couple of months. We've been doing nightly or every other nightly calls. Last night he was 10 minutes late for our call which whatever but he showed up undressed clearly just out of the shower and didn't bother to get dressed during our call. Now before I get called a pride I'm bothered because it just reeks of thoughtless and poor time management and occasionally one of our kids walks in wanting to say hi to Dad. They didn't this time but still. And I don't know how to mention this without seeming ridiculous

A pretty good indication that you are being ridiculous is that you would feel ridiculous for mentioning it