That is why all these debates lead nowhere. Atheists never experienced faith, they don't know what they are talking about. They try to reason their way into convincing religious people that God doesn't exist. But faith is never logical or mathematical. It's like love. Do you have to reason you way into loving your kids? I hope not.
It is completely irrational and yet it is the most beautiful thing I have known. Once you truly experience it, you never want to go back, because life is so empty without God in it. |
I wasn't talking to you ![]() |
Well said. |
The above is your opinion. I experienced faith and now I'm an atheist. Many atheists are like me, in that they were once religious. I'm very happy. I enjoyed life when I was a believer and I enjoy it a bit more now, knowing that it's the only life I will have. |
In other words, you don’t have a why. |
DP but I am not sure what you are asking. The original OP asked how or why people came to become believers and our answer is that we fell in love with God (or you can also say, we realized that God is in love with us). That is the how and why of our conversion. |
Curious what made you stop believing. |
I thought about it and read about it - academically. |
Same here. Unlike the other PP I am Hindu. Reaffirming my beliefs has helped steady my worldview and ground me. It's the religion I was raised in but fell away from it with some frustrations and have felt very positive to make it an important part of my life and identity again. |
I too was once a strong believer. Then, I studied about different religions and science. Once the blinders of religion are removed, reality becomes clear. Religion is all made up. |
That’s nor a why. Unless you don’t care if it is true or not. |
I was raised in a church, but mostly secular. We went to church and Sunday school sometimes, but not super frequently, and never on holidays (Christmas and Easter were family time, not church time).
In middle school, I stopped believing in God and it wasn't until sophomore year of college that I started feeling like I was missing something. I started looking for a way to reconnect with God and found a new religious home for myself. |
My story is like pp's except that I stopped believing later in life and never went back, with an awareness that religion was made up. |
Falling in love with my new baby. That moment was so profound I knew we humans were special and that we owe it to each other to love everyone as ourselves and to take care of this world. Those feelings felt anointed upon me by something greater so I started to explore faith in something greater than just this existence. |
It's a natural thing to love your child. However, if God is love, or loves us, its a highly abusive relationship. He dictates that you worship him, and only him - and gets extremely jealous if you are unfaithful. He has already decided on a plan for you life, kind of like a bad date that orders meals for you. He's terrible at communication, as its either silence from him directly or dismissive of your input since only he knows what's going on. Add to it the threat of eternal punishment for disobeying and his terrible mood swings (old testament vs new). I got smart and got the hell out of that relationship. |