Does your husband pester you for sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just bend over and get it over with…

That’s tough with a big, pregnant belly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just bend over and get it over with…

That’s tough with a big, pregnant belly.

That’s not the best position but there are plenty of others. Be creative.

[Anonymous]

No. My drive is higher than his.

[Anonymous]

Uh, but OP, have you experienced 2nd trimester orgasms yet? You should be wanting it more than him...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We both work from home. Everytime we run I to each other for a break my husband pounces. It’s great most of the time. Sometimes it stresses me out that he is like “Now!!”

How many times per day/week/month do the two of you actually have sex though?

It's not every time you take a break. That's b.s. That would be several times a day.

Right?


So, get real. Tell the truth and maybe you will get useful responses.

Chill lady. I’m the pp. I am not the op.
Yes my husband gets handsy every-time we have a break together. Do we have sex everytime? No. He will get handsy and ounce and then I push him off with “ I have a meeting.”

We have sex daily mon - Fri while kids are at school.

Yes to the other poster. I have told him to tell me when he has an open or free time so it stresses me out. Now he will say, “Can I pencil you in at 1pm?”

[Anonymous]

Pester? I make him pay for it if he does that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We both work from home. Everytime we run I to each other for a break my husband pounces. It’s great most of the time. Sometimes it stresses me out that he is like “Now!!”

How many times per day/week/month do the two of you actually have sex though?

It's not every time you take a break. That's b.s. That would be several times a day.

Right?


So, get real. Tell the truth and maybe you will get useful responses.

Chill lady. I’m the pp. I am not the op.
Yes my husband gets handsy every-time we have a break together. Do we have sex everytime? No. He will get handsy and ounce and then I push him off with “ I have a meeting.”

We have sex daily mon - Fri while kids are at school.

Yes to the other poster. I have told him to tell me when he has an open or free time so it stresses me out. Now he will say, “Can I pencil you in at 1pm?”

I’m the wife and a SAHM of school-aged children. My DH only WFH 2-3 days per week, but on those days I definitely ask questions about his schedule/calls/etc. and he knows why I am asking. He can usually find the time but not always. Our kids are teens and stay up late so it’s easier to be intimate during the school day than at a night, especially if we don’t want to be quiet.

[Anonymous]

We're in our 50s and all of a sudden it's constant pestering. I work from home full time but am considering getting an in office job because he thinks he can harass me while I'm working if he's home too. And then if I say no even if I'm coughing up a lung I'm the bad guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Uh, but OP, have you experienced 2nd trimester orgasms yet? You should be wanting it more than him...

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just bend over and get it over with…

That’s tough with a big, pregnant belly.

And sexy AF!

[Anonymous]

I think pesters is a harsh word. Just like if a man said his wife pesters him for hugs or kisses or cuddles or physical affection or time together.

These are all typically normal things to do in relationships. So one person wanting them and one person who doesn't creates some friction when it is normal marital activities.

I would set clear boundaries - just get the disappointment over with at once. Tell him you will only say yes to sex once a week and to not to ask you any more than that as you no longer really see an active sex life as part of your relationship. Then he knows his limit and can be disappointed and deal with it or decide what to do about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think pesters is a harsh word. Just like if a man said his wife pesters him for hugs or kisses or cuddles or physical affection or time together.

These are all typically normal things to do in relationships. So one person wanting them and one person who doesn't creates some friction when it is normal marital activities.

I would set clear boundaries - just get the disappointment over with at once. Tell him you will only say yes to sex once a week and to not to ask you any more than that as you no longer really see an active sex life as part of your relationship. Then he knows his limit and can be disappointed and deal with it or decide what to do about it.

All of this. If he thinks it’s infrequent now, wait until you give birth, have an infant, etc.

The frequency will do nothing but decrease over time, and nothing he does will change that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just bend over and get it over with…

That’s tough with a big, pregnant belly.

I love sex with pregnant women…

[Anonymous]

We both prefer to do it when the other person is equally enthusiastic. We’v both had cancer so we understand that a lull doesn’t mean rejection.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My husband has a very robust sex drive. I did too before I became pregnant but hormones and feeling giant had slowed it down. My husband is still very much interested and loves my pregnant body - not in a weird fetish way. He wants it all the time and is always doing extra to try to get some. It was cute at first but is turning into being annoying really quick. How normal is this and how do I keep him fulfilled but also make it clear that sex won’t happen nearly as often as he wants it?

It's completely normal and healthy for a healthy male to want to have as much sex as he possibly can with his perfectly healthy (although also pregnant) spouse.

It is ABNORMAL for the spouse to be offended or concerned that her husband likes to have lots of sex with her.

You must be a male.
We all get to control our own bodies, and what they are used for. Sometimes being treated having like a toy is not appealing. She is probably exhausted and maybe uncomfortable. He should indulge HER Desires right now. He can self- pleasure his body, and take emotional pleasure from caring for the woman is busy creating his offspring!