Bela Karolyi is dead

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He claimed he didn’t know about Nasser’s abuse. Why don’t people believe him? Do you think all of the parents who also claim they didn’t know are lying as well?

Why is be being blamed for parents subjecting their kids to his intensive training? He wasn’t hired to be these girls’ parent; he was hired to train to gymnasts, and he was incredibly successful at that task.

Watch the Simone Biles special on Netflix for a perspective of someone who was actually there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He claimed he didn’t know about Nasser’s abuse. Why don’t people believe him? Do you think all of the parents who also claim they didn’t know are lying as well?

Why is be being blamed for parents subjecting their kids to his intensive training? He wasn’t hired to be these girls’ parent; he was hired to train to gymnasts, and he was incredibly successful at that task.

Watch the Simone Biles special on Netflix for a perspective of someone who was actually there.

Lots of people were “actually there” and have a completely different perspective than she does.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He did a lot for gymnastics.

Yes, but only by traumatizing and abusing young girls, and leaving them vulnerable to be abused in the worst possible way by a man he encouraged to stay working with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He claimed he didn’t know about Nasser’s abuse. Why don’t people believe him? Do you think all of the parents who also claim they didn’t know are lying as well?

Why is be being blamed for parents subjecting their kids to his intensive training? He wasn’t hired to be these girls’ parent; he was hired to train to gymnasts, and he was incredibly successful at that task.

1. THere were kids living at his ranch in TX. It was his JOB to know if anyone was hurting/abusing his athletes.
2. He is blamed for HAVING traumatizing training. You can train someone to the Olympics without screaming at them that they are a fat, pregnant cow until they cry. But that's the method he chose.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He claimed he didn’t know about Nasser’s abuse. Why don’t people believe him? Do you think all of the parents who also claim they didn’t know are lying as well?

Why is be being blamed for parents subjecting their kids to his intensive training? He wasn’t hired to be these girls’ parent; he was hired to train to gymnasts, and he was incredibly successful at that task.

Watch the Simone Biles special on Netflix for a perspective of someone who was actually there.

Lots of people were “actually there” and have a completely different perspective than she does.

I haven't seen "lots of people" having a different perspective. I've seen Mary Lou and Nadia so far, that's it. Wait - Sydney Morris went to some training camps there and hasn't spoken out in either direction.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He did a lot for gymnastics.

Right… that’s why gymnasts now are healthier, happier, not abused, more mature because they can continue their sport into their 20s…

Did everyone forget about the doctor who sexually abused them? Larry Nassar?

[Anonymous]

Burn in hell bubba

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He claimed he didn’t know about Nasser’s abuse. Why don’t people believe him? Do you think all of the parents who also claim they didn’t know are lying as well?

Why is be being blamed for parents subjecting their kids to his intensive training? He wasn’t hired to be these girls’ parent; he was hired to train to gymnasts, and he was incredibly successful at that task.

I have to agree with this. He was a very successful coach, and a very interesting and determined man, you can’t deny that. Was he nice to the gymnasts? Doesn’t sound like it, nope. But he overhauled the US gymnastics program and got results. But the whole abuse scandal- I don’t see how you can blame him and Marta and not blame the kids parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He did a lot for gymnastics.

Right… that’s why gymnasts now are healthier, happier, not abused, more mature because they can continue their sport into their 20s…

So you disagree that he did a lot for the sport?

I’m saying who knows how many gymnasts quit because he fostered an abusive USA gymnastics culture from the top down. When you think of all the talented girls and women who could’ve been something but didn’t want to deal with abuse, I’m sure the sport would be even better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He did a lot for gymnastics.

Right… that’s why gymnasts now are healthier, happier, not abused, more mature because they can continue their sport into their 20s…

Did everyone forget about the doctor who sexually abused them? Larry Nassar?

That was sarcasm. My point was that Karolyi fostered a gymnastics culture where Nassar thrived. Since then the gymnasts are better and happier and have more longevity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He claimed he didn’t know about Nasser’s abuse. Why don’t people believe him? Do you think all of the parents who also claim they didn’t know are lying as well?

Why is be being blamed for parents subjecting their kids to his intensive training? He wasn’t hired to be these girls’ parent; he was hired to train to gymnasts, and he was incredibly successful at that task.

1. THere were kids living at his ranch in TX. It was his JOB to know if anyone was hurting/abusing his athletes.
2. He is blamed for HAVING traumatizing training. You can train someone to the Olympics without screaming at them that they are a fat, pregnant cow [b]until they cry. But that's the method he chose.

He didn't do that

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He claimed he didn’t know about Nasser’s abuse. Why don’t people believe him? Do you think all of the parents who also claim they didn’t know are lying as well?

Why is be being blamed for parents subjecting their kids to his intensive training? He wasn’t hired to be these girls’ parent; he was hired to train to gymnasts, and he was incredibly successful at that task.

1. THere were kids living at his ranch in TX. It was his JOB to know if anyone was hurting/abusing his athletes.
2. He is blamed for HAVING traumatizing training. You can train someone to the Olympics without screaming at them that they are a fat, pregnant cow until they cry. But that's the method he chose.

So are their parents monsters or not?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He did a lot for gymnastics.

Right… that’s why gymnasts now are healthier, happier, not abused, more mature because they can continue their sport into their 20s…

So you disagree that he did a lot for the sport?

I’m saying who knows how many gymnasts quit because he fostered an abusive USA gymnastics culture from the top down. When you think of all the talented girls and women who could’ve been something but didn’t want to deal with abuse, I’m sure the sport would be even better.

Get real. The average person probably wouldn’t even watch gymnastics if it weren’t for him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He claimed he didn’t know about Nasser’s abuse. Why don’t people believe him? Do you think all of the parents who also claim they didn’t know are lying as well?

Why is be being blamed for parents subjecting their kids to his intensive training? He wasn’t hired to be these girls’ parent; he was hired to train to gymnasts, and he was incredibly successful at that task.

Watch the Simone Biles special on Netflix for a perspective of someone who was actually there.

Lots of people were “actually there” and have a completely different perspective than she does.

I haven't seen "lots of people" having a different perspective. I've seen Mary Lou and Nadia so far, that's it. Wait - Sydney Morris went to some training camps there and hasn't spoken out in either direction.

So even judging by the absurd standard of what you, personally, have seen… it’s 2 speaking on his behalf and 1 against.

[Anonymous]

The parents are something special. They’re not evil though. It would be like if it turned out later if we decided over-rigor were abusive. Everyone from the most rigorous teachers at StA to high achieving parents would come out dumbfounded saying they were just trying to help the kids. Add to that StA, as all schools, had abusers come through their school. If people tried to make that connection, the dumbfoundedness would compound.

Who knows how history will judge us. The hear of that program was negative. I would guess fear and greed, the heart of every over-rigorous program.

Simone Biles in contrast is truly a positive, uplifting force. Whatever the Karolyi’s are, they are not heroes. She is.