Back in the day when AAP was called GT - I was the kid that should've been kicked out. I was at the bottom of my class, they moved other kids in through the year and moved them out. They didn't care about esteem then.
For that year - I was waiting for my teacher to tell me I need to clear my desk and move out. That day never happened. I think - it was a judgement call. I think: my teacher felt I needed to get used to the competition. I was at the remedial level the year before and when they made me take the standard exam I think I outscored everyone. As with life everything depends on how your: teacher, manager, parent, ... sees you as not what you are. |
This is partly the reason. I asked about moving my DC back to gen ed because they were struggling a little (this was during virtual school), and the school told me they generally don’t do that because other kids will know and DC might feel bad. |
Every school does things differently. Kids were separated into homeroom based on Advanced Math or Regular Math in 5th grade and then had all classes with that group, a defacto LIV group. They changed classes for all subjects in 6th grade, with the Advanced Math kids all in the same math classes. |
You wouldn't be weeding out prepped kids, you would be weeding out the kids that are referred by parents. On the whole, test scores reflect ability whether it is prepped or not. An unprepared kid can underperform but a well prepared kid will not outperform. Don't excuse your child's failure with the fact that other kids have studied. |
I take it you don't have friends with children in the same classes as yours? I do, and they tell me their kids are struggling but don't want to drop them down to "gen ed". The kids know each other really well after three years in the same class, too, they know which ones have tutors, which ones get extra pull outs, which ones get more small group time. People talk, PP. |
This is a stupid argument. Maybe parents and schools should stop telling AAP kids that they're special. Maybe instead tell children that they are in classes that meet their needs and stop there. One of my kids asked why they didn't get in to AAP and I said "You don't need to be in there. You're going to get advanced math pull outs, but everything else in the normal classroom is perfect for you!" and that was that. |
OP here. If I was told that my child didn't belong in AAP, then I would absolutely bring her down to a general ed class. I'm not a snob. I have one kid in AAP and one who isn't. They're both exactly where they need to be. |
That is just STUPID. |
You have no idea what you're talking about. You are absolutely NOT supposed to prepare for tests like NNAT and COGAT. You can ABSOLUTELY trick those tests into believing your child is gifted because you have taught your child the strategies to answer the questions as opposed to actually gifted children who can intuitively answer the questions without any help at all. You don't see the difference there? |
My kid pushed in for advanced math. We were told and they were told that their spot was contingent on their being space available. That was the highlight of the advanced math meeting. There was no talk of meeting her needs, just her needs can be met as along as the level IV class has space for her. |
The thing is, almost everyone preps for these so if you don't, you are at a disadvantage. Have you been to lotte in Fairfax? They sell cogat prep books. If you think people aren't prepping their kids then you are deluded. Also, AAP is no a gifted program. It's an advanced academic program. There is a difference. |
This area is soooooo type A |
I doubt self esteem is the main reason that they don't kick kids out of AAP. Wouldn't it be horrible for a kid's self esteem to struggle in AAP, feel like they don't understand the material, and feel like the other kids are annoyed with them for holding back the rest of the class? I bet they just don't want to have to deal with angry parents. It's easier for the school to leave the kid in AAP. |
No, that’s nonsense, *almost* everyone does not prep. There are some who do but don’t justify your cheating w that BS that everyone does it so you do too to keep up. I have 2 kids in AAP and have no idea what “the lotte in Fairfax” is. |
Your sample size must not be huge. We absolutely did not prep for the cogat yet my dd scored in the 99th percentile. Just like every iready test which shocker was not prepped for other than what teachers may do in the classroom. |