Men, if you don't want kids, whats the reason?

[Anonymous]

I never wanted “kids” in the abstract and was never a baby person. When I met my husband I wanted to have his kids and wanted to be a family with him. I don’t think everyone has a free floating abstract desire to be a mom or dad. If I hadn’t met him, I would never have for example considered being a single mom due to a strong urge to be a mom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would YOU bring children into this screwed up world?

+10000 INSANE.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Would YOU bring children into this screwed up world?

+10000 INSANE.

Well I'm the op and I'm second generation immigrant so kids are very important but I never felt a willingness to have them. I fell to more affectionate to dogs than to kids that weren't my own and I'm getting to dcm old age. This attractive handsome man who happens to be white white. He says he never wanted kids before he met me but now he wants them and talks about them everyday

[Anonymous]

Sorry for the typos I'm using voice to type

[Anonymous]

I think honesty about your reproductive plans is great! I think every person who proactively chooses against parenthood is a more responsible and thoughtful member of dowry than those who have kids “just cause” who they can’t or won’t care for properly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Would YOU bring children into this screwed up world?

+10000 INSANE.

Well I'm the op and I'm second generation immigrant so kids are very important but I never felt a willingness to have them. I fell to more affectionate to dogs than to kids that weren't my own and I'm getting to dcm old age. This attractive handsome man who happens to be white white. He says he never wanted kids before he met me but now he wants them and talks about them everyday

op, you don't want kids? and the man you are dating says he wants kids now that he met you but did not want kids before?

[Anonymous]

Many men (and even many women) think they don’t want kids until they actually have one, and then they realize it’s great and they should have done it sooner.

There’s really no solution other than “jump in and have kids” because you won’t know what it’s like until you have your own. Other people’s kids are annoying and won’t help persuade you to have them.

[Anonymous]

Raising kids in modern day usa is too hard. If I could have a do over I would've had one child or none at all. The expectations for fathers are way too high. I do way more than my father ever did

[Anonymous]

I am no way in HELL ever paying a single college tuition bill ever again after spending 15 years paying mine off. F off with kids and college. I want to have some home of ever retiring thank you very much.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious. Dating a man who says he never wanted kids before me not even with his ex wife. When I ask why he can't explain. He just says he never wanted to be a father. I'm curbing on dcum old age though lol but if there are other men with the same line of thinking, why did you never want kids?

Maybe that his bad idea of flattering you? Or a compliment?

Or maybe you seem like a milk maid.

[Anonymous]

Let’s see.
- expensive
- Will end up losing custody in the event of likely divorce. Since most marriages end in divorce
- Child Support will break you
- lack of sex after kids are born
- most women aren’t capable mothers. That’s why single mother households have kids who are more likely to be criminals or get pregnant . Studies back up this fact
- lack of women who are considered wife material let alone wife and mother material . Most are vapid, shallow children themselves who have no accountability. If you want someone with family values you have to love away from this area to the Midwest or South
- having a son means he will more than likely end up drafted in the military of a suicide statistic.
- having a girl means you have to watch out for teenage pregnancy and her getting into the porn industry
- the American empire is a crumbling entity. We’re basically what the Ottoman Empire was before WW1, we’re on our last legs. I wouldn’t want to bring up a child in this chaos. The Boomer generation has messed up the country badly and unfo Millennials aren’t much better. Gen Z might have some hope but I think the damage is already done.

If you have the option of moving to some place that’s secure, has a good economy, growth and education system then maybe. Switzerland, Poland, Bulgaria and even Romania have cheap high standards of living, less crime than here, still culturally sound and not degenerates, and small enough where you can make a decent living without breaking yourself. The Swiss are guarded and there is little to no hope they allow anyone is. Poland is very nice, clean and welcoming. Bulgaria and Romania are up coming. So if I have kids I’d consider moving to those places.
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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let’s see.
- expensive
- Will end up losing custody in the event of likely divorce. Since most marriages end in divorce
- Child Support will break you
- lack of sex after kids are born
- most women aren’t capable mothers. That’s why single mother households have kids who are more likely to be criminals or get pregnant . Studies back up this fact
- lack of women who are considered wife material let alone wife and mother material . Most are vapid, shallow children themselves who have no accountability. If you want someone with family values you have to love away from this area to the Midwest or South
- having a son means he will more than likely end up drafted in the military of a suicide statistic.
- having a girl means you have to watch out for teenage pregnancy and her getting into the porn industry
- the American empire is a crumbling entity. We’re basically what the Ottoman Empire was before WW1, we’re on our last legs. I wouldn’t want to bring up a child in this chaos. The Boomer generation has messed up the country badly and unfo Millennials aren’t much better. Gen Z might have some hope but I think the damage is already done.

If you have the option of moving to some place that’s secure, has a good economy, growth and education system then maybe. Switzerland, Poland, Bulgaria and even Romania have cheap high standards of living, less crime than here, still culturally sound and not degenerates, and small enough where you can make a decent living without breaking yourself. The Swiss are guarded and there is little to no hope they allow anyone is. Poland is very nice, clean and welcoming. Bulgaria and Romania are up coming. So if I have kids I’d consider moving to those places.
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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious. Dating a man who says he never wanted kids before me not even with his ex wife. When I ask why he can't explain. He just says he never wanted to be a father. I'm curbing on dcum old age though lol but if there are other men with the same line of thinking, why did you never want kids?

I’m too selfish. I don’t want to give up my time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Let’s see.
- expensive
- Will end up losing custody in the event of likely divorce. Since most marriages end in divorce
- Child Support will break you
- lack of sex after kids are born
- most women aren’t capable mothers. That’s why single mother households have kids who are more likely to be criminals or get pregnant . Studies back up this fact
- lack of women who are considered wife material let alone wife and mother material . Most are vapid, shallow children themselves who have no accountability. If you want someone with family values you have to love away from this area to the Midwest or South
- having a son means he will more than likely end up drafted in the military of a suicide statistic.
- having a girl means you have to watch out for teenage pregnancy and her getting into the porn industry
- the American empire is a crumbling entity. We’re basically what the Ottoman Empire was before WW1, we’re on our last legs. I wouldn’t want to bring up a child in this chaos. The Boomer generation has messed up the country badly and unfo Millennials aren’t much better. Gen Z might have some hope but I think the damage is already done.

If you have the option of moving to some place that’s secure, has a good economy, growth and education system then maybe. Switzerland, Poland, Bulgaria and even Romania have cheap high standards of living, less crime than here, still culturally sound and not degenerates, and small enough where you can make a decent living without breaking yourself. The Swiss are guarded and there is little to no hope they allow anyone is. Poland is very nice, clean and welcoming. Bulgaria and Romania are up coming. So if I have kids I’d consider moving to those places.
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🤔☠️

What solar system are you from????

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Let’s see.
- expensive
- Will end up losing custody in the event of likely divorce. Since most marriages end in divorce
- Child Support will break you
- lack of sex after kids are born
- most women aren’t capable mothers. That’s why single mother households have kids who are more likely to be criminals or get pregnant . Studies back up this fact
- lack of women who are considered wife material let alone wife and mother material . Most are vapid, shallow children themselves who have no accountability. If you want someone with family values you have to love away from this area to the Midwest or South
- having a son means he will more than likely end up drafted in the military of a suicide statistic.
- having a girl means you have to watch out for teenage pregnancy and her getting into the porn industry
- the American empire is a crumbling entity. We’re basically what the Ottoman Empire was before WW1, we’re on our last legs. I wouldn’t want to bring up a child in this chaos. The Boomer generation has messed up the country badly and unfo Millennials aren’t much better. Gen Z might have some hope but I think the damage is already done.

If you have the option of moving to some place that’s secure, has a good economy, growth and education system then maybe. Switzerland, Poland, Bulgaria and even Romania have cheap high standards of living, less crime than here, still culturally sound and not degenerates, and small enough where you can make a decent living without breaking yourself. The Swiss are guarded and there is little to no hope they allow anyone is. Poland is very nice, clean and welcoming. Bulgaria and Romania are up coming. So if I have kids I’d consider moving to those places.

What solar system are you from????
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🤔☠️