If your kid wants to bring instrument and math book on vacation

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So DC wants to bring instrument + sheet music (to practice and get “really really good at it”), and math workbook (because “math is fun”) on a trip, along with chapter books for reading AND a craft. Yes I do sometimes wonder about ADHD…

Do you let them take “work” on long trips, or encourage them to just soak up vacation and family time? DH says it’s fine, but I wonder if I need to enforce a break.

It's not "work" to your DC. Your DC said "math is fun." Some kids and adults truly love math and find the puzzles of math just as fun and entertaining as card games or table puzzles. Why would you want to prevent DC from doing something they enjoy on vacation?

(My answer would be completely different if YOU were suggesting that your DC do math exercises on vacation and it wasn't something he/she enjoys. But if it's coming from them, bring it on, let them enjoy vacation time doing things they love.)

[Anonymous]

Packing for trips with my ADHD math loving kid is always baffling to me! I never would have thought workbooks were essential vacation materials!

[Anonymous]

Seek therapy asap

[Anonymous]

It is crucial to let the kid to learn planning their own schedule. When they are in high school you will not be able to help them plan how much time to spend on certain subject or what to study first or next. I see your child's request as a good indication. Other than packing space issues, I'd help her plan her vacation to whatever she'd like.

[Anonymous]

We brought music instrument on oversea trips when staying at relatives house. If it will be hotels you probably can’t play ( they may not allow) any music instruments without disturbing other hotel guests.

[Anonymous]

Acting insecure and intimidated because you kiss rise above your expectations is kind of pathetic

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So DC wants to bring instrument + sheet music (to practice and get “really really good at it”), and math workbook (because “math is fun”) on a trip, along with chapter books for reading AND a craft. Yes I do sometimes wonder about ADHD…

Do you let them take “work” on long trips, or encourage them to just soak up vacation and family time? DH says it’s fine, but I wonder if I need to enforce a break.

Bringing the instrument really depends on the type of vacation and age of the kids. Outdoorsy and outdoor adventure stuff? No, because I can envision a hundred ways it will get damaged or lost somehow. Staying in a hotel? Maybe if the instrument isn't too loud. Visiting someone's home or an airbnb? Sure.

I don't see why you would object to books and workbooks so long as they fit in the luggage. Most likely if you have planned enough fun activities they books will just stay packed.

[Anonymous]

I can read your mind

[Anonymous]

As PP said, depends on where you're going and how. Obviously, on a translatif trip, no instrument, but books and math book, sure.

[Anonymous]

What's the instrument?

Brass needs to atleast bring the mouthpiece and blow into it every day.

[Anonymous]

Do it burn that kiddo out

[Anonymous]

In fifth grade, I brought 2 volumes of the encyclopedia on vacation to Jamaica. Dad had to pay extra for my heavy luggage, and he never let me forget it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a great kid. How is this bad?

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a great kid. How is this bad?

Neuroticism maybe?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sure. I’d be thrilled they have some plans to occupy themself beyond looking at a screen

Exactly! How is this even a question? Growing up in DC, we didn’t need a car, so we always had a book to read on the bus.