He canceled our date

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Tit-for-tat is the dominant strategy when dealing with women.

2. I had someone cancel a lunch date at the last minute because her son returned unexpectedly from college and she wanted to make lunch for him. I told her I'm never seeing her again (I had taken off work to go meet her for lunch, using valuable leave time).

If that’s your dominant strategy then she picked up on that - your hatred for women.

[Anonymous]

I have to say. My (middle age) boyfriend does this tough love thing and it works on me .

dude - “never seeing u again” is not tit for tat
obviously you didn’t like her much

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Tit-for-tat is the dominant strategy when dealing with women.

2. I had someone cancel a lunch date at the last minute because her son returned unexpectedly from college and she wanted to make lunch for him. I told her I'm never seeing her again (I had taken off work to go meet her for lunch, using valuable leave time).

If that’s your dominant strategy then she picked up on that - your hatred for women.

She does s*^k thu. The kid probably did not appreciate it at all. He could care less whether lunch is home made or not

[Anonymous]

tit for tat on a small scale seems harmless. This particular man may find exactly who he is looking for this way. I don’t think that means he is a vengeful or “hate” filled person.

Some people feel this works for them

[Anonymous]

This is too much work for only dating two months. He’s having to deal with last minute cancellations and you’re trying to figure out what’s “really” going on. Do a favor for both of you and end this.

[Anonymous]

And she posts about her 2 month date …
It’s her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like he’s tired of your games and dumped you.

WTF? She isn't playing "games," she's working overtime, in part to help out a coworker. Something any reasonable person would understand (or even admire). NP

[Anonymous]

He can have a preference

[Anonymous]

He got a date with someone he sees more potential in.

[Anonymous]

He’s got other plans

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Tit-for-tat is the dominant strategy when dealing with women.

2. I had someone cancel a lunch date at the last minute because her son returned unexpectedly from college and she wanted to make lunch for him. I told her I'm never seeing her again (I had taken off work to go meet her for lunch, using valuable leave time).

She dodged a bullet.

[Anonymous]

Try dating again when you can honor your commitments or accept you'll have to date a lower tier of men who will be desperate enough to out up with so many cancellations early on/always.

[Anonymous]

Did he give you a reason for canceling?

Guys get played snd ghosted too. Sounds like he doesn’t believe the cancellations were due to work. Just move on.

[Anonymous]

You should have let him know your issue and current lifestyle at the beginning, not after you flaked twice and confronted you.

Sounds like he’s not ok with your current lifestyle which is understandable. It’s the end of the road. Next time tell people up front.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Tit-for-tat is the dominant strategy when dealing with women.

2. I had someone cancel a lunch date at the last minute because her son returned unexpectedly from college and she wanted to make lunch for him. I told her I'm never seeing her again (I had taken off work to go meet her for lunch, using valuable leave time).

WTAF?! You canceled on her because she wanted to spend time with her son? Valuable leave time LOLOLOLOL. So glad I'm not in today's dating world.