Huh? Our kids were in privates (same for k-8, different for HS) because the schools were a good match for them and they were thriving. We were lucky to be able to afford it and not really think about the cost. If we couldn't afford it, they would have gone to our public. Our very large public is a very different environment than our private was - but that doesn't mean it was inferior. Kids were happy with their pathway and so were we. Everybody finds what works for them. |
Being at a DC private is a hook. |
k Not ours. Lol |
| Unhooked international into HYPSM from my kid’s school. |
| There really is no way to tell whether an accepted student was unhooked. Lots of hooks are not readily visible. |
Race is not a hook |
| Certainly more unhooked Ivy admits and top 15 at our big3 than last couple years. Always hard to know exactly who is hooked but does seem there was a bump |
No one gets into Yale or Princeton with average grades. |
But they do with awful test scores!!! The Reddit WL kid had a 29 ACT only. Test optional at those schools let in a lot of lesser academics |
Want to bet? I’ll put as much on the line as you want that this statement is false. |
Yea, they do. If your school lets you look at previous class results, you'll see that kids with statistically 'average' grades for the class do get into top schools, though often with parents in the seven-digit donation range. |
And? What difference does it make? Your kid should pick schools that are good fits for them and let the chips fall where the will. What happened with other kids iin a different cycle has almost no bearing whatsover with your kid, their application and the cycle they are in. |
LOL - yeah - right. I can give you two examples from our DC's graduating class. And yes - both had VIP + legacy hooks. |
| How many of these VIP + legacy hook admits do you think there actually are in any given year among the approximately 4000 admits to Yale and Princeton? |
Of course - and this is what we did. But it is 100% helpful to be told (made up example) "I see Duke is the top of your list. Just to let you know, the only people who have gotten into Duke from our school over the past 10 years were athletes or legacy. It doesn't mean you shouldn't try, but when strategizing your applications, I thought it might be helpful for you to know this." |