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What they hell is wrong with some of you? |
Maybe just work on your misogyny and body image issues with a therapist instead of projecting them onto other women. |
New PP here and I was someone who gained all over and it never all came Off at 28. I’m still far heavier than the friends who gained belly only. |
So? |
Plus she has an entertainment career. You don’t need kardashian level wealth to raise a child. |
| She looks beautiful! Some people are just nasty around here... |
It is harder to drop weight all over than just if your belly got big from pregnancy. |
She should have had a baby with Zac Efron at 20? |
Not really. Less stretch marks too. |
So? I had a child in my 30’s and it was easy peasy. Maybe it’s just you. |
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We all know this (at least we should), but the original poster made it sound like she was stupid for gaining weight while pregnant. It isn't a human failing or flaw if your body gains weight in places other than your belly while pregnant. That is also genetics.
Do you think I wanted to drop 15 lbs in a month while puking my guts out? No. I then got back to my pre-pg weight + 30 lbs (give or take a couple) So, all told, I lost and gained 60 lbs over the course of my pregnancy. On a 115-ish lb frame. Pregnancy was a struggle, so having a healthy pregnancy diet or exercising were not top of mind. Getting any food in and staying in and moving when I could were my goals. I actually dropped weight quick post pregnancy, but that was because my thyroid went completely out of whack. My stomach never returned to pre-pg, though. I really just think people need to remember that every body and every pregnancy is different. It isn't a race and you don't win an award for being the perfect pregnant lady. Like I said, give the chick a break. You have no idea what she may have gone through behind the scenes - maybe she did IVF? And why are we giving her crap for "waiting" - she wasn't married to the other 2 guys. While I realize that isn't a requirement, some people do think it best to be in a committed relationship before reproducing. I don't even care about VH, but y'all need to keep your opinions on her reproductive choices and pregnancy body to yourselves. |
Sure. It’s not like she was in college or launching a career. 15 years of birth control and partying…now having a first kid with an ugly borderline pro baseball player at age 35. |
You’re clearly lying. It is not “easy peasy” to drop 100 pounds at age 35 or 36 with a newborn. Nobody who actually dropped the weight at that age would ever call it easy. |
Here is my post. I did not imply anywhere she was stupid for gaining weight! It’s unfortunate when that happens because it does make it harder to lose the weight, but yes it can be just genetics. It sort of reminded me of Eva Longoria, who also was the same way. |
Why? She’s having a baby now at the right time for her, and Zac Efron would have been a terrible baby daddy. Some people HATE hate hate seeing women control their fertility and give lie to the idea that women “lose their value” at 22. |