Why are most of the complaints about men?

[Anonymous]

Men are less emotional. Men don't invite-in the drama, as much.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This site is literally called DCUM. I’m sure a site called DCUD would have more complaints about women.

Wrong: it is actually called DCUMAD, with “AD” literally meaning: AND DADS.

What’s rarely said or openly acknowledged is: this site is 98% women. You were right in that respect, I guess.

lol The url is literally dcum…clearly dads are not the priority.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This site is literally called DCUM. I’m sure a site called DCUD would have more complaints about women.

Wrong: it is actually called DCUMAD, with “AD” literally meaning: AND DADS.

What’s rarely said or openly acknowledged is: this site is 98% women. You were right in that respect, I guess.

lol The url is literally dcum…clearly dads are not the priority.

url is dcur not dcum. And it clearly says "banmom"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This site is literally called DCUM. I’m sure a site called DCUD would have more complaints about women.

Wrong: it is actually called DCUMAD, with “AD” literally meaning: AND DADS.

What’s rarely said or openly acknowledged is: this site is 98% women. You were right in that respect, I guess.

lol The url is literally dcum…clearly dads are not the priority.

url is dcur not dcum. And it clearly says "banmom"

Wow you’re tedious


https://www.dcurbanmom.com/

“Urban mom”

Zero reference to dads, aka men, or male parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women just complain more than men do. Men mostly internalize, where many/most women feel free to express their every thought, especially on an anonymous board.

I say this as a woman who loves to talk about my feelings. It's ridiculous, but there you have it.

Men don't internalize anything, they discard issues or emotions and sweep them under the rug. Someone else can deal with them.

Or they start acting out- cheating, substance abuse, or just full on anger and raging.

Women never do any of that. 🙄

[Anonymous]

Men quickly learn not to complain because nobody cares. And of all the people who don’t care, women on DCUM care the least.

[Anonymous]

Because, generally, the current systems work for men. Women are on here complaining about their specifics - but if you look trends, these complaints are really complaints about societal and cultural norms / systems.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This site is literally called DCUM. I’m sure a site called DCUD would have more complaints about women.

Wrong: it is actually called DCUMAD, with “AD” literally meaning: AND DADS.

What’s rarely said or openly acknowledged is: this site is 98% women. You were right in that respect, I guess.

lol The url is literally dcum…clearly dads are not the priority.

url is dcur not dcum. And it clearly says "banmom"

Except let’s ignore the fact the moderator is a male and a dad. Lol

Wow you’re tedious


https://www.dcurbanmom.com/

“Urban mom”

Zero reference to dads, aka men, or male parents.

[Anonymous]

Isn’t this forum owned by a dad ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women just complain more than men do. Men mostly internalize, where many/most women feel free to express their every thought, especially on an anonymous board.

I say this as a woman who loves to talk about my feelings. It's ridiculous, but there you have it.

Men don't internalize anything, they discard issues or emotions and sweep them under the rug. Someone else can deal with them.

Or they start acting out- cheating, substance abuse, or just full on anger and raging.

Maybe they are tired of their wives complaining.

[Anonymous]

I actually do see men complain on here pretty frequently. Main complaints:

1). Sex life
2). Wife gained weight
3). Wife is infantalizing kids
4). Wife nags too much/cares about things I don’t care about
5). Wife spending money I don’t want to spend
6). Ex-wife cheated and got too much in the divorce

I think complaints from men about women are in proportion to the number of men:women on the board.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I see men on here complaining all of the time about their spouses. Often the lack of sex issue.

[Anonymous]

Because this website is called DC Urban Moms

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:because men don't overthink or really care too much about the stuff that bothers women. We should try to be more like men.

Why? Men aren't better than women. They need to become more open with their feelings, not less

[Anonymous]

Men are gross and like gross things - they don’t mind getting dirty, violence, insulting each other for fun.

Women are the fairer sex. We have more refined senses, are smaller, are expected to raise children and are primed to see dangers everywhere for their survival. We also tend to have less power to make change happen, historically.

Whether this is primal or social, it is how it is.