Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

[Anonymous]

Be sure to let the grooms and their families (and actual friends) know that you don’t consider this to be a “real” wedding by wearing white and by calling it a gay male wedding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do people hem and haw about wearing white to a wedding? There are so many other colors!!!! Just pick something else and wear the blazer to a different event.

All of this. Do not do it. The men could be wearing white tuxedos, right?

The white blazer you own is for every other event you go to, NOT for weddings!!! Ever!

[Anonymous]

You could ask, but really just pick something else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You could ask, but really just pick something else.

Don’t bother busy grooms before their weddings by trying to make it about YOU. ANY decent wedding guest knows you don’t wear white. It’s not about you, it’s not about your attire, your job is to show up and celebrate THEM. Don’t be a needy guests. The two people getting married have enough to focus on and deal with and they don’t need phone calls from needy guests.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Be sure to let the grooms and their families (and actual friends) know that you don’t consider this to be a “real” wedding by wearing white and by calling it a gay male wedding.

Don’t you think it matters that this is a male gay wedding and not a female gay wedding?

[Anonymous]

Do not wear white.

[Anonymous]

No, they might be wearing white suits or formal wear. Just go ahead and buy something non white and then you will have an outfit to wear to the next wedding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be sure to let the grooms and their families (and actual friends) know that you don’t consider this to be a “real” wedding by wearing white and by calling it a gay male wedding.

Don’t you think it matters that this is a male gay wedding and not a female gay wedding?

No. White at any wedding is meant to signify “attention” and even if the grooms don’t choose to wear it, they may assign it as a special color for attendants, their mothers or sisters, the officiant, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do people hem and haw about wearing white to a wedding? There are so many other colors!!!! Just pick something else and wear the blazer to a different event.

This x 109383873

Just don’t

[Anonymous]

There is no bride. It's totally fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is no bride. It's totally fine.

So you know for a fact that the one or both of grooms are not choosing to wear white? You know for a fact that they have not assigned this color to their wedding party, their officiant, their mothers or sisters, etc.? How very interesting, what with you not knowing them. At all.

[Anonymous]

Don’t wear white to a wedding. Period. Doesn’t matter if it’s a gay male wedding or a straight couple or a gay female wedding. Never wear white to a wedding. It says that you want people to notice you and it is rude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Be sure to let the grooms and their families (and actual friends) know that you don’t consider this to be a “real” wedding by wearing white and by calling it a gay male wedding.

I think OP is referencing the SNL skit.

[Anonymous]

lol!
No, OP. White on women is historically “bride.” You are a woman. If you wear white you’ll come off like wanting to be perceived as bride-adjacent. Don’t do it.

[Anonymous]

No