Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

[Anonymous]

There is no bride. The males being married will be in suits. As a woman attending, could I wear white? I have a white tuxedo blazer that I want to wear over a dress.

[Anonymous]

No. Don't wear white to a wedding. It's too "look at me!"

[Anonymous]

If the grooms are wearing black or gray, I think it's o.k. Light blue...hmmm. White tuxes themselves...then no for you.

The main point would be whether you would be confused with a bride. Low chance of that in this case. But you still might get photographed with one of the grooms alone. And you might want a copy of that pic.

Ask a groom and see if they care. Follow their advice.

[Anonymous]

No. It’s a wedding, not a “male gay” wedding. You don’t wear white to a wedding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is no bride. The males being married will be in suits. As a woman attending, could I wear white? I have a white tuxedo blazer that I want to wear over a dress.

Yes. It is fine.

[Anonymous]

While I think it’s less of a faux pas than at a straight wedding, I would still say no to white unless you have a clear accent of color (shrug, shawl, skirt, dress is not plain white). Otherwise it would still look weird.

[Anonymous]

The question is: will the bridegrooms be wearing white? Lol!

[Anonymous]

White hardly looks good any people anyway. Just choose a freaking color or pattern!

[Anonymous]

Why don’t you ask your friend getting married, both grooms probably know the dress code since there’s no bridezilla involved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s a wedding, not a “male gay” wedding. You don’t wear white to a wedding. [/quote]

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s a wedding, not a “male gay” wedding. You don’t wear white to a wedding. [/quote]

+1

Also, you don't know if one of the men might wear a white suit or tux. I've seen it happen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is no bride. The males being married will be in suits. As a woman attending, could I wear white? I have a white tuxedo blazer that I want to wear over a dress.

White blazer at a gay wedding? That’s a no from me, dawg.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s a wedding, not a “male gay” wedding. You don’t wear white to a wedding.

+1

[Anonymous]

Why do people hem and haw about wearing white to a wedding? There are so many other colors!!!! Just pick something else and wear the blazer to a different event.

[Anonymous]

No.