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OP here. Totally agree with this, but the coaches on the lower teams are not as good and playing with better players is important to improvement as well. It's not like the higher level teams have kids that are all-stars, for pete's sake! They lose every game as well. And if they weren't trying to bait and switch, wouldn't the better approach be starting them on the lower team and moving them up mid-year vs. moving them down? It just seems disingenuous. |
But you are assuming the next team down is significantly below the top team. Maybe, in which case your kid may be just much better (but then, theoretically, there wouldn’t be the performance issue causing them to get moved down). But if your kid cannot keep up it may be they were placed on the wrong team, in which case they really WONT develop with those kids. It’s really hard to judge a player based on a few tryouts, and sometimes new talent comes in and switches things up too. I certainly think you could make the case to going to another club and getting released, but to demand and underperformer on the top team because that was their offer doesn’t hurt the club—they just won’t play them—but it will hurt your kid. Parents need to be realistic about their kids’ performance. |
I've been in this situation before and the drop off was enormous. The top team was usually in a top bracket at big tournaments and did well. The second team might as well have been rec. The top team wasn't a great fit, but neither was the bottom team. We decided to leave and DD ended up on the third team at a bigger club that season that was a much better fit. The next year, she was on the second team which was a great fit. |
| The rift between Vienna Phoenix and the B team is pretty wide! |
You are complaining because they promoted some kids but then also complaining that they aren't promoting kids. Clearly you haven't asked for or know of the coaches reasoning. Maybe for the B kids who really are great this affords them to play more. And let's be honest, the competition level of the teams they are playing against are good enough--nobody on the B team you mention is always the best player on the field in those B team games against other teams. If they promoted your kid, they'd be caving to parents who "nag" on DCUM. |
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You are complaining because they promoted some kids but then also complaining that they aren't promoting kids. Clearly you haven't asked for or know of the coaches reasoning. Maybe for the B kids who really are great this affords them to play more. And let's be honest, the competition level of the teams they are playing against are good enough--nobody on the B team you mention is always the best player on the field in those B team games against other teams. If they promoted your kid, they'd be caving to parents who "nag" on DCUM. Welcome to the party amigo. |
Welcome to the party amigo. Lol. Best response that encapsulates what youth soccer is. Every family wants a club/team that is exactly right for their kid. Everyone else be damned. |
I have to agree with this. My ds is on a great team in a very large club and and outside players were brought in who were many levels below rest of the team. They were not dropped and it significantly impacted the entire team in many ways. I could also say it limited their development in ways. This is not a good situation in most cases and dropping the player to a better fit team benefits everyone of the gap is large. If player doesn't agree with decision, since you had a contract you can request refund and player card for beach of contract. |
Welcome to the party amigo. OP here. This makes sense. However do all travel teams do this after they have slotted a kid on a team or is it just unique to VYS? |
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Our VYS kid has been in the opposite situation. Offered a lower team, worked super hard over the summer, had an amazing tournament at OBGC and the coaches saw the growth. I don’t think DC deserved the top team when the teams were formed but did when the season started.
No clue if you have a true bait and switch vs my kid’s fact pattern but it isn’t always nefarious. With puberty, brain development, etc - sometimes kids are just different after a summer. |
OP, you sound like you are new to travel. Relax, this is a marathon, not a sprint. Your child’s team placement at U9 or Y10 is not going to determine anything. It doesn’t really matter how many games they win at that age, either. The only thing that matters is whether your child develops, and whether they have fun. I have had kids on literally every color team at VYS (including Gold), on both the boys’ and girls’ sides. I’ve had kids get moved down multiple times. I’ve had a daughter moved down at exactly this time of year. I’ve had a sub on gold, and a starter on Phoenix. At the younger ages, it doesn’t matter, except maybe once Phoenix / Eagles start practicing a third day per week. At 7v7, the kids’ talent is so inconsistent, it is extremely hard to get team placement right. The absolute last thing you want is your kid playing on a team they aren’t ready for. Their teammates and opponents will likely be larger, faster, more aggressive, or more skilled. Your kid will be afraid to make a mistake, will be rushed every time they receive the ball, etc. Playing time can be affected. Lots of people say “Your kid needs to practice against players better than them to improve”. The reality is, there’s probably a reason why those other players are better, and it is up to your child to commit to improving first, whether speed, stamina, touch, aggressiveness, etc. I’ve seen dozens of kids get moved down, and have never, not once, seen a child moved down where it wasn’t clearly obvious to everyone they should be playing on the lower team, and I’m including my own kid in that. It can be a part of the journey, and many players wind up improving, getting moved back up, and being better off for it. |
None of this is even close to true. Maybe 5+ years ago, but the coaching is excellent on the uLittle girls’ side, and the teams are very competitive. Vincent and Regi are great. |
I didn’t want to bring names into it, but you identified the problem. If they were great they wouldn’t hemorrhage players each year when players get sick of getting moved every two weeks with no explanation or realize that they aren’t progressing while kids at the surrounding clubs are learning and growing (2014s only have 2 teams now - they drove off an entire team’s worth of kids in 1 year). R seems like a nice guy. V is a heck of a talker. I wouldn’t let either of them work with my kids. |