Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not. What is the point of this?

[Anonymous]

Eww.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and I also love it when he cuts my meat for me, and chews my food for me if it is too tough. I prefer to sit on his lap during meals as well.

I like it when he chews it up and then regurgitates it into my mouth like a mother bird.

[Anonymous]

My DH does this for me sometimes, but only when I ask him to. When I’m hungry and my blood sugar drops I have a hard time processing the menu and making decisions. I ask him to order something I’ll like and he does. It is wonderful.

But in any other situation, ew. He never would have done this early in our relationship.

[Anonymous]

Would I find it "alluring?" NO! I think I would find it controlling and "good-bye."

[Anonymous]

Would he find it alluring if I ordered for him? No, he wouldn't. He'd feel it was disrespectful, controlling and dismissive of his ability to speak for himself. Why would I feel any different if he ordered for me? Unless, of course, if I were in the bathroom.

[Anonymous]

Gross.

[Anonymous]

Ew no. But I would like to order for him and pick my second choice so I don’t have FOMO.

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Anonymous]

I guess those who don't like it also don't like a man who opens the door for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I guess those who don't like it also don't like a man who opens the door for you.

Correct. If you want to help do something useful that’s actually annoying and hard to do. Like regrout my shower competently.

[Anonymous]

As long as he asked me what I wanted first I don’t mind and might like it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I guess those who don't like it also don't like a man who opens the door for you.

Wrong.

[Anonymous]

No.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find this very sexy! Take charge! Of course, I will convey my order first -- but I like to be ordered "for". And sometimes ordered around

+1.