This is OP. I can absolutely afford real diamonds, I am just unclear on why I would spend 2X the price on them at this point?? |
Disagree strongly. Diamonds have bad blood if you know the history. Hard pass now that I know. |
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Man made diamonds are diamonds. High VSS rating, meaning clean, no occlusions.
It is because of the complete lack of occlusions that an expert can tell they are not natural. Natural stones have natural features, like occlusions, veining, coloration, some kind of blemish in its body. Teeny tiny but they are there. |
| I prefer natural diamonds but it's all about the setting. A good setting will make CZ look real. I would not spend above that for lab diamonds. |
Have you never seen a gem? Lab grown diamonds are real diamonds grown on a controlled environment. They are magnificent. |
Are you blind? Because moissanite double refraction is very obvious. Lab diamonds, on the other hand, are indistinguishable and often do come in warmer colors contrary to what PP seems to think. |
You’re so very wrong. Mined diamonds absolutely come in lower clarities. |
Mined diamonds = "natural stones" Manmade = lab grown, total clarity unless artificially introduced |
Yes, I have a 2 karat edwardian piece. The appraiser explained to me that manmade diamonds are obvious because they have no occlusions, blemishes. When dealers are looking at diamonds thru the magnifiers, that's what they are looking for when they grade the stones. |
Really? I can tell the difference between moissanite and diamonds if I put them next to each other and compare, and I don't work with either. But I know that lab diamonds and naturally-occuring are the same. |
Are you sure about that? some of the larger man made diamonds I am looking at have a lot of inclusions, to the point of looking kind of bad because of all the black dots. |
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Another thing to note is that diamonds aren’t actually rare, despite what the industry would have you believe.
If looking for a special piece of jewelry, go with another type of stone like a sapphire or ruby. |
| The only way to tell the difference, is in a lab by microscope. There is no such thing as an ethical, mined diamond. Certificates are easily bought and meaningless. My engagement ring, a lab grown diamond, is lovely. I get tons of compliments. |
You shouldn’t. Get the nice earrings your DH found and enjoy. |
| I love my diamond studs. If I lost them, I’d absolutely replace them with lab made diamonds. Lab made diamonds weren’t a thing 20 years ago when I bought natural diamonds. |