How “cringe” am I?
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Anonymous
OP - This one is connected to Instagram/FB/LinkedIn if the person opts in. It also lists colleges and most recent jobs. |
Anonymous
| Are you the same person who drove by a dates house and took pictures of the cars in his driveway? |
Anonymous
| Cringe. |
Anonymous
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Hmm maybe this is because I the last time I online dated was in 2014, but I don't think OP was that cringe. Like if this guy put his name and workplace on an app, yes you can find it on LinkedIn, its not rocket science what she did . . .
If someone contacted you if you had this info out there you would really say stalker? It literally takes two seconds to type Larla Jones PWC Arlington, VA in Google. That really isn't stalking. That being said apparently your peers don't like this OP. Let us know if he ends up responding though and everyone else is wrong. |
Anonymous
| Let us know if they write back! |
Anonymous
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My friends now DH did something similar. Except he pretended to never have matched and to have just randomly saw her on LinkedIn.
She remembers him matching with her on the dating website ; he claims it never happened. He connected with her on LinkedIn, and they started chatting in a non- romantic manner. Next thing you know they went out for tea and the rest is history. She thought he was cringe back then, but she eventually fell for him and they are happily married. |
Anonymous
| ^have just randomly seen her. |
Anonymous
She wasn't.  The guy isn't going to care, at all. OP you were not "cringe". Your real mistake was making it so easy for people to come into the thread to get their daily dose of hurling insults. 
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Anonymous
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Not that bad but you need to realize that some people freak out about things like this.
Some don't like the crossover to other apps, especially a business focused app Some has no idea how easy it is to find them. There may be only one or two LinkedIn profiles of women named Prudence who work as an architect and went to Jackson State and the University of Idaho. |
Anonymous
| It’s why we deleted LinkedIn. It’s basically a dating app now. Also, psychos use it to try and find a wealthy partner. |
Anonymous
| I'm a man and I wouldn't mind it, if you're attractive. |
Anonymous
You only make the shots you take! My now husband was super super cringe when we first met, too. About to celebrate 12 years of marriage. |
Anonymous
I would be honored. But how did you connect him from the dating app to LinkedIn? |
Anonymous
Same here. |
Anonymous
| I don't think it's a big deal, OP. I'm impressed you actually reached out to a man you were or became sexually interested in. Most women sit on their rears and never make a move. In fact they pride themselves on it. Women are crazy. |