a school staff adore my kids

[Anonymous]

It sort of sounds like you don’t think your kids are that likable, so you suspect something nefarious is going on.

Is that why you are concerned?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe it reminds her of her (estranged?) grandkids and she's living vicariously through them.

Or, maybe, her grandchildren are grown or maybe she has no grandchildren. All of you rant and rave about "a village" but if anyone shows any interest in your kids you automatically assume the worse. No wonder no one wants to help you ever!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It sort of sounds like you don’t think your kids are that likable, so you suspect something nefarious is going on. Is that why you are concerned?

If that IS why, I will just point out that my parents strongly disliked me and didn't like spending time with me. It ... didn't inspire my best behavior. Somehow, at my grandparents, I was lovely and we three had a GREAT time together. I never got in trouble there, had tons of fun, everything was beautiful. And my grandma loved me hard enough that I felt it.

[Anonymous]

You're perturbed at an old woman, who may be lonely, likes your children?

What is going on with this world?


This has never disturbed me. I am grateful and thankful for anyone who shows my child kindness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Trust me- it beats the opposite- when a teacher/ care giver takes a random dislike to your kid.

OP is stirring up snakes and alligators.

No, OP sounds like she's ESL (immigrant, perhaps) who doesn't understand the dynamics of an American school, but notices something is off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're perturbed at an old woman, who may be lonely, likes your children?

What is going on with this world?


This has never disturbed me. I am grateful and thankful for anyone who shows my child kindness.

I know, right?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're perturbed at an old woman, who may be lonely, likes your children?

What is going on with this world?


This has never disturbed me. I am grateful and thankful for anyone who shows my child kindness.

I know, right?!

I'm a former educator and sometimes I saw this with staff members. They just had a connection or liked a particular student. I saw one teacher kiss and hug her fav girl student. It's sort of like a grandma role that they take on. When I was young, there were various older people who didn't kiss me, but I definitely got a lot of hugs and a lot of older folks invested in me by talking with me. I guess it depends where and how you grow up. But in general, no one in school is supposed to be putting their hands on the students but usually this is bc they might hit them or hurt them.