Rude doorman

[Anonymous]

"If you ever speak to me again to say anything besides "good morning", I'm telling your wife you're cheating."

Are you bluffing? Potentially. But he doesn't know.

[Anonymous]

who cares? He's a doorman, not your friend. Be polite and let it go.

[Anonymous]

complain to management. not here

[Anonymous]

Don't eff with anyone who can mess with your deliveries.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:tell him he's not getting paid to insult the residents.

who does he report to? maybe reach out to them.

I would, but the manager won't fire him. He knows that. He takes advantage.

So complain in writing to the manager. What do you think you will get by posting here?

Maybe sympathy. Maybe someone had a similar story. This is a forum where people are free to share experiences.

Nobody that has been around this board thinks this.

Get a life, pp.

Alwys such a b1tch or just when you feel spoken to?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If a mere lackey can insult you with impunity, then your status is clearly low. Try to acquire some more impressive status signifiers. Pay attention to the other women in the building, and model your appearance and behavior on them.

Be warned, though, many doormen can sense you are a Nobody regardless of how you dress and act.

I know it's doorman's way to insult OP and get some head. OP has to do that to avoid feeling bad from this doorman. Time to drop on your knees, OP.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If a mere lackey can insult you with impunity, then your status is clearly low. Try to acquire some more impressive status signifiers. Pay attention to the other women in the building, and model your appearance and behavior on them.

Be warned, though, many doormen can sense you are a Nobody regardless of how you dress and act.

Op here. Did you miss the part where I said he's cheating on his wife? He treats other people this way. What the hell are you taking about calling people a nobody? Are you 4?

Now we know why OP has that look.

[Anonymous]

Wow this thread derailed so fast. I think DCUM has truly devolved into a complete sh*t show.

[Anonymous]

Maybe there is some truth to what he said.
Don’t be so gloomy, specially when you are picking up your child.

[Anonymous]

Gotta love NY’ers. 🤮

[Anonymous]

My face looks like this because I have to put up with rude men who don't know how to behave politely to women.

[Anonymous]

No tip at Christmas.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe there is some truth to what he said.
Don’t be so gloomy, especially when you are picking up your child.

How do you know this is her face when she sees her child? I know of no mom who looks annoyed when getting a child from the bus. Unless the guy is standing at the bus stop, this comment is weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If a mere lackey can insult you with impunity, then your status is clearly low. Try to acquire some more impressive status signifiers. Pay attention to the other women in the building, and model your appearance and behavior on them.

Be warned, though, many doormen can sense you are a Nobody regardless of how you dress and act.

Dear God. A tenant - or anyone, for that matter - should have to impress the doorman. This man needs to be fired.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe there is some truth to what he said.
Don’t be so gloomy, especially when you are picking up your child.

How do you know this is her face when she sees her child? I know of no mom who looks annoyed when getting a child from the bus. Unless the guy is standing at the bus stop, this comment is weird.

You know, not everyone choose to erase their face with Botox. I am guessing OP has prominent 11s that make her look like she is scowling. Either that or she is a harried Mom rushing to be in time for pick-up. Regardless, the comment is weird and inappropriate.