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Would you consent to your partner taking a lover?
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Anonymous
| No way-I'd kick him out. |
Anonymous
| does this mean that your husband will ruin someone else's marriage? |
Anonymous
| op, would your lives be so terrible if he didn't do it? |
Anonymous
| Hell no. |
Anonymous
LOL! |
Anonymous
 You just cracked me up!
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Anonymous
Not sure how you came to that conclusion - there are single women out there. |
Anonymous
| No! |
Anonymous
| sex therapist? |
Anonymous
| Probably not, but you're the one who needs to decide, so who cares what we think or would do?! |
Anonymous
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Interesting topic OP...I am one of the people who months ago posted as to not having any sex for a looooonnnnggg time with husband...not sure why, really and not sure how to get back into the groove...sooo much has changed..so interesting you should post this cuz just this morning i was driving to work wondering if i would really be bothered if he was messing around. i don't really thing he is, but just wondering if I would be bothered...
I think - at the end of the day - it would open up all kinds of other things if one of us decided to have sex with someone else...I think it would be hurtful, ultimately. So - not meaning to change the thread of the post, but in the end, it isn't ever just about sex... |
Anonymous
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I might recommend marriage therapy. I don't mean this in a snarky way - but if you are seriously considering this, you should be aware of the potential consequences.
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Anonymous
| I can't believe this post is till going on- call it considering swinging or something- but if you are truly a "marriage" both of you have to step up since you did get married to commit to each other - otherwise why bother? |
Anonymous
| 22:31 - try not to be judgemental. Although the general concept of marriage may be (relatively) universal (e.g. commitment), the precise definition/understanding/living of that commitment varies from couple to couple. OP's marriage may indeed be working well, and they may have a strong sense of commitment to each other. While "swinging" may not be for you or me, it may work for some. Personally, I tend to agree that sex rarely ends up being only about sex, and that having your partner take a lover is likely to only cause problems in the long run, but I suppose it has worked for some! |
Anonymous
| I was driving into work this morning and heard Elliot in the morning talk about how Yoko chose the woman John Lenon should sleep with during their trial separation. |