You should have drawn an inference from the PP at WJ who suggested WJ kids need to take 12-14 AP courses to attend a good university. |
| WJ was very accepting to my HFA special ed kid. |
And you think somehow they can take fewer AP courses at Whitman and sail right into Harvard? What a stupid inference that would be. WJ kids are competitive with Whitman kids for top colleges -- and I assume you understand that college admissions overall are extraordinarily competitive these days. |
Mental health issues are worst at Whitman and Wootton then Churchill and least WJ. WJ is the "saner" W school |
NP here. Are you talking about issues due to academic pressures, social pressures, or something else? Do you know enough to place BCC? |
Honestly who could possibly know enough to accurately describe each of these schools. My kid went to one of these and I'd be hesitant to say I can accurately characterize their school much less 5 others. |
I don’t think that was their point. Pp was suggesting WJ is similarly cut throat if that’s the norm. That said, I have a good student at WJ who is on track for about 8 APs. I wouldn’t say 12-14 is the norm, unless a contender for Ivys. |
I prefer to use the data the county released by high school sorted by demographic cohort. This makes it easier to factor in SES differences and get a sense of how these schools really stack up. For the largest cohort common to these two schools, Whitman has an average of 1299 vs WJ which had 1275. Basically, both are fine schools and it's just a matter of splitting hairs. https://ww2.montgomeryschoolsmd.org/departments/sharedaccountability/reports/2017/1771102HS%20Princ_SAT%20Partic_Perf%20Class%20of%202017.pdf |
I agree and I have kids at WJ. 12-14 is not the norm. |
You're not smart enough to read between the lines. The highest achieving school, on paper, in terms of grades - Whitman - probably has the biggest stressors, most suicides / accidental overdoses and outsourcing for therapists. |
+1. It’s not necessary to have 12-14 APs. That’s insane actually. |
Do you have data to support that? Google WJ and suicide. There are kids with mental health issues at both. It’s important to differentiate between the issues of the kid and the issues of the school. My DC went to Whitman and was one of those for whom it was a great fit and not high stress, despite taking a lot of AP classes. I’m sure he would have done fine at WJ too. OP you may want to talk to the guidance counselors at each school to get a sense of the fit for your child’s particular mental health challenges. I’m sure they’ve seen similar kids before and can provide some perspective. |
Great post. It would make no sense to sell your house and move to a different Bethesda area school to avoid pressure. Just pay close attention to your kid and give them the resources they need. My kids all had a happy, engaged time at Whitman, as did most of their friends at both Whitman and WJ. But we know plenty of kids who have struggled at both and at all other area schools. Each kid and situation is different. |
It depends what you mean by ¨norm¨ The Apex (signature academic) program requires 9 AP classes as the minimum. [Program changed for class of 24 and on for those who had kids in the old program] |
Only on DCUM would a "signature academic program" be considered a "norm". It's for the top kids.
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