| People who are really vain. |
| People who are passive aggressive and attention seeking. And who can’t just be direct. Like the people who post the vague Facebook “things will get better soon…. I just know it. Thanks to my friends for always being there.” |
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Negativity
Cheapness Know-it-all types Rude Indecisive Tardiness |
| People that over talk. Tell long boring stories with no relevance to the audience. |
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Know-it-alls
Flakey, unreliable Needy Attention seeking |
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In men (for relationship), I cannot take:
Small mindedness Judgmental Inflexible Controlling In women (for friendship) dealbreakers are Judgmental about the wrong things Narcissistic Boring Shallow |
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Talks on about self and doesn’t ask about others
Victim in need of rescue Complaining a lot Rudeness Dishonesty Ignorant but opinionated (my favorite) Disrespectful No empathy |
| Surprised at people pointing to lack of empathy because in my experience people don’t seem to care that much about it. Or rather, many people take it for granted in others but don’t seem to require it as necessary. I’ve heard people criticized for caring too much, but rarely for caring too little. |
No way, empathy is critical. |
+1 |
This drives me bonkers. Back off, jack*ss, I'm not buying it. So phony. |
So, the vast majority of humans? |
My favorites are the ones who “check in” to the hospital when they’re attending a routine visit at the adjoining doctors’ offices (or visiting someone else in the hospital) with no context so they can get 35 comments saying “OMG HONEY ARE YOU OK???” |
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People who talk about others behind their back
Arrogant Controlling/bossy Attention seeking Complaining/whining |
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During conversations, people who answer questions about themselves, but do not ask questions about you.
People who do not have the ability to laugh at theirselves- too serious. |