Would I be unreasonable to suggest separate sleeping arrangements?

[Anonymous]

I have my own room. We couldn’t have sex anyway before bed with teens in the house who are always awake. I’m so happy in my own bed. My room also has a bathroom. It’s great!

[Anonymous]

My husband's CPAP saves the day!

[Anonymous]

Call me old-fashioned, but I'll never not judge couples who sleep in separate rooms.

[Anonymous]

Been married 23 years, lived together for 25. DW and I haven't shared a bed in 24 years and we are doing just fine

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:how and how often does sex happens if couple don't sleep together?

More frequently than before.

Just not with my spouse

[Anonymous]

What about separate twin beds in the same room like Ricky and Lucy had?
My wife moves around a lot and will occasionally flop onto me in the middle of the night which wakes me up, she doesn’t snore she’s just restless; maybe two twins would help her keep her hands to herself.

[Anonymous]

The breath right strip helps my husband snore less.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dh and I swap out time in the guest room. I snore. I intend to do a sleep study at some point, but it’s low on the list in the middle of the pandemic. It’s not a big deal. I’d rather not be waking him up all night long.

Respectfully, you should prioritize a sleep study. Snoring and apnea is serious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:how and how often does sex happens if couple don't sleep together?

Uhh...you know you don't do it in your sleep, right?

LOL my DH and I have slept separately for most of our marriage due to his snoring and we manage a few times a week.

[Anonymous]

I would suggest sleep studies for both of you - him to address the snoring and other noise, and you to address why you’re such a light sleeper that mouth breathing wakes you up.

[Anonymous]

I moved to my own room after having a medical issue that's causing mid-night, multiple panic-like attacks. I moved so he wouldn't be disturbed when I got up, walked around, turned the tv on, etc. I have to say it's been nice having my own room again after so many years of sharing! I'm not sleeping, but it's nice to just be alone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:how and how often does sex happens if couple don't sleep together?

Uhh...you know you don't do it in your sleep, right?

LOL my DH and I have slept separately for most of our marriage due to his snoring and we manage a few times a week.

We are back in the same bed recently, but before when we were sleeping apart it did not affect us either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:how and how often does sex happens if couple don't sleep together?

My husband and I haven't slept in the same bed for almost 15 years due to his snorig and me being a light sleeper. We still lay in bed watch tv, talk or fool around then he'll go take a shower kiss me good night and off to the other room he goes. Our relationship hasn't been impacted at all by sleeping separately.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Call me old-fashioned, but I'll never not judge couples who sleep in separate rooms.

Who the hell cares what you think?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:how and how often does sex happens if couple don't sleep together?

Every other day at least.