College Kid’s Significant Other
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Anonymous
| Maybe your kid doesn’t really want th to visit - they know you’ll disapprove or worse - be over bearing |
Anonymous
| You never know what’s the reason so better not to speculate or stress. |
Anonymous
They don’t care to be inspected in your home. If you want to get to know them, go up to school and take them both out for dinner. |
Anonymous
| My kids bring home everyone they are dating it seems. Sometimes I kinda wish I had that problem. |
Anonymous
+1 You're being awkward, OP. |
Anonymous
Means they trust you, and you get the inside scoop |
Anonymous
| Have you asked your own kid directly why they haven't brought significant other home for a visit? |
Anonymous
Or they're free-loaders, late-bloomers, failed-to-launch types. |
Anonymous
I like this idea OP. |
Anonymous
No!. This is not for you to determine, OP. This is for your son or daughter to handle. If they want and meed for you to meet their SO , you will. Until that happens step all the way back, this is part of them leaving the nest. |
Anonymous
| Being brought into a home with obviously overbearing family to get gawked at and questioned to death is a big no for most kids this age. Awkward to say the least. Have they just been together since the start of this school year? If so, they are still sorting things out themselves. |
Anonymous
| Wait, your child is LIVING with someone and you haven’t met? Are you financing this love nest? We need some details, OP. |
Anonymous
College kids usually have housemates; sometimes they date. |
Anonymous
| I'd run away from a guy in college whose parents insisted on being that up in his life away from home. Cut the apron strings. He'll bring home his bride when he finds her. |
Anonymous
| Will you respect the SO’s pronouns? |