
YES! |
+100 Harry literally has every type of privilege in droves (racial, class, wealth, gender, sexual orientation, etc) and is ruled and controlled by her? Give me a break. |
I feel like he looked the happiest when he was working with Michelle Obama... |
Is it not possible that he has mental health issues? It's possible that he has all the privilege in the world and is also susceptible to being controlled and getting stuck in an unhealthy relationship. |
And yet according to people on this thread Meghan also has mental health issues but also isn’t worthy of any sympathy. |
Harry has opened up about his mental health issues in the past.
It’s just so strange to me that people are concerned about his life with Meghan, while he obviously has broken free of his Royal chains, but no one was so concerned about a young, single man living under the shadow and duty of his older brother and his wife, and the family that contributed heavily to the death of his mother. The amazing thing is he can HAVE bad days now, he can be himself, and he can make choices about his life. Meghan may be in the drivers seat to some extent, but all of his life, the choices for Harry have been made by What’s best for granny, daddy, and the needs of Will and Kate and their brood. His usefulness became limited the day that Kate fell pregnant, as he was no longer the required spare, but of course, the Family needed him to play his role so Wills and Kate could play house. I wish people would cut him a break. He is learning an entirely new way of life. He’s still fairly newly married, finding new work, a fairly new father, moved to a new country, and is under fierce speculation all the time. I can’t imagine how much pressure that is, especially when the British media hates your wife, and people hate her because she wouldn’t just sit up and shut up and be a nice princess so Kate could sit back for a while. |
Because the type of mental illness she has is destructive to innocent people. Narcissists don’t deserve sympathy. They leave a path of destruction all around them and of the cause of much mental and emotional abuse to the people unlucky enough to be caught up in their charm and fall in love with them She is a textbook narcissistic manipulator. She has decimated Harry and his family too |
Well I disagree with that. People with personality disorders are profoundly unhappy and isolated. Here’s a thought...if Harry is so mentally ill why do you assume his family was a benevolent force in his life until Meghan suddenly came along and ruined his life by whisking him away to a mansion in Montecito? Presumably this was a life long struggle and they don’t really have a great track record with how they treated Diana and traumatizing the brothers by having them walk a mile behind their mother’s coffin for...photo ops? You don’t know who supported him or who didn’t. But you want to believe that Meghan didn’t and they did? Why? |
Not the pp but it is generally strange for someone to abandon their entire family, quit their job, their friends and their country when they enter into a new relationship. He did such an extreme pivoting since meeting Meghan that people can't help but think she may be behind this. |
That's not why people hated her and that's a wrong word anyway. Everyone was largely sincerely welcoming of her when they first got married. The resentment came later when people came to believe she is someone who didn't care about learning how her new country and its royal family operates (into which she decided to enter voluntarily!) and thought she could make her own show on the BRF's platform and dime. You may have your disagreements with how the BRF operates but remember no one HAS to marry into it. Currently, the resentment is only magnified by the behavior best summarized as "I'm doing my best to exploit the platform that was only made available to me because of the family into which I briefly entered". Be honest. Who would have any interest in Markle's opinions if she wasn't married to Harry? It's not like there's any special merit there outside of the title. People don't like her because they see it as cashing in on the family connection even while leaving the family behind. The same goes for Harry btw but the resentment is lower in his case because at least he owns the family name by birth. Markle doesn't. |
LOL, this is prime DCUM Blame the woman for everting kind of thought. It’s like it never occurred to any of you that Harry *picked* Meghan exactLy because she was the antithesis of what was “expected” of him. And his platform was decided before his birth. It’s his to Do with or without. As Americans, shouldn’t you kind of be applauding him for sticking it to the monarchy? |
It’s not sticking it to them when their retirement and financial future is set. When they make money using the monarchy’s name. The Duchess is Sussex is here to speak because.... she married a prince. Private security paid for months by the monarchy! Who gets that type of treatment? Where they really worried about where to live? No. He’s not actually sticking it to the monarchy. Maybe in some psychological way. But not in a real actual way. He may be walking away. But keeps ALL the priveleges. |
He didn’t quit he was fired. 1) the initial rumors of them being relocated to Africa were from Kensington palace 2) they wanted to do half in/half out and that was rejected 3) everyone saw how chilly William and Kate were at commonwealth day and 4) any sort of meaningful ties were cut...prime example would be removing Harry’s military positions (note: Andrew still has his). I’m not saying the BRF didn’t have their reasons, the Sussexes definitely seem to lack perspective, but Harry did something they didn’t approve of and they literally threw him out like he was a piece of trash. He’s not the first person to marry an unlikable spouse. He’s not even the first person in his family to marry someone everyone hates (Philip won’t even be in the same room as Fergie!). |
No, I lack much sympathy for narcissists. How sympathetic do you feel to trump? |
Why would they going downhill quickly be depressing for you? You don’t know these people. |